I’m not going to take advice from anyone with the word “alpha” in their username, a rule that seems to work fairly robustly.
It’s strange that anyone would have such a binary view of how women should be. You know that it’s possible to appreciate spiders without chugging beer and smashing cans on your forehead, right? And that arachnophobia isn’t a parameter on the femininity spectrum? People are more complex than that.
But who am I to talk? My vision of idealized femininity was fixed in the 1960s.
I wonder what she thinks of spiders? I’m pretty sure she would have seen them as one of our fellow creatures, man, you know, like part of nature.