I like Jessie Gender. I will heartily recommend her videos in general (though admittedly, I don’t much care for the strictly Star Trek content). She is a kind and forgiving voice with a flair for intellectually dissecting conflicts. Sometimes, however, too kind and forgiving, as with her recent video on the too-much-discussed Dave Chappelle.
I think Jessie got it very wrong here because she forgot to take a perspective into account. The argument seems to have been “Dave Chappelle is just a guy getting things wrong” vs. “Dave Chappelle is a committed hatemonger” (the latter argument getting quite a bit of backup from the fact that he explicitly called himself a TERF like Rowling in this show), but I don’t think either of them are true. I don’t think he considers trans people to be an oppressed minority he is trying, badly, to ally with, nor does he think we are a rot that needs to be stamped out of society. Both of those require an emotional investment in trans issues and taking a side in the “trans debate”, and it seems obvious to me that the main reason all of these things keep happening is a much simper third option:
Chappelle does not care one whit about trans people as a group, either way. He would not give up as much as a single pubic hair of his own wealth to help us, nor to help actual hate groups.
See, the argument that he is a failing ally is steaming nonsense for a really simple reason: time. Chappelle’s been a televised comedian for decades, and this is now at least year five of him involving himself in this specific controversy. He is an intelligent man. If he had any desire to educate himself or become a better ally, he has had ample time to do so.
He’s gotten worse instead. Not frothing, destroying-his-own-life worse like some people, just a bit worse. It’s just that he doesn’t give a shit.
I believe there is excellent evidence that Chappelle views trans people (really, all queer people, but as usual trans people are the epitome, the queer-squared) as a bourgeois trend, something you have to be a self-unaware privileged person to be. Something inextricably rooted in being white, in whiteness, regardless if you’re not. Huge swaths of his content places Black people both culturally and in their fight for liberation in opposition to queer people (which is, incidentally, itself perpetuating an inaccurate and harmful stereotype of Black people). Basically, he thinks of trans people as a kind of ‘hipster’.
In that framing, everything he’s said and done makes sense. Consider the stereotypical ‘hipster’, a bespectacled flannel-wearing upper-middle-class college guy with a beard and a man bun, someone who has never tasted oppression, someone who might have a good heart but has a privilege-blinkered understanding of the world. The poster child for ‘unwitting gentrification’. This is how Chappelle thinks of us.
To him, the argument that he hates us is thus silly, because who could care about hipsters enough to have a visceral loathing for them? Silly little things, they can do what they want, but of course no right-thinking person will take them seriously. Hipsters claiming to be oppressed? Pleeeease! That just proves they have no idea what oppression is, and deserve to be needled for that. Hipsters angry about a comedy special?? Hah, whiny babies!
And so on and so forth. Leaving the question, why then bother with us so often and so horribly, if he doesn’t really care?
Cold hard cynicism. He sees a bunch of whiny white hipsters who have the ear of some portion of the media, and who nobody he cares about will take seriously. This last special, and Netflix itself, have gotten a lot of press they would not otherwise have gotten because of this. We’re a fucking marketing stunt. And it worked, because you can rest assured that the group of people willing to vocally praise his “brave anti-political correctness stance” and even go out of their way to support him for it is way bigger than the group who will actually pull the plug on Netflix over this. The public at large doesn’t give a shit about trans people one way or the other, and six months from now at best they’ll remember Chappelle was in the news for something that Shawn at work said was really good.
Netflix, of course, has made the same calculation, but in their case even colder. Chappelle has a shitty, loose, inaccurate point of view about trans people; Netflix doesn’t even have that. They are a completely amoral corporation. They’ll happily buy and push all sorts of pro-trans and pro-queer content and paint their logo with rainbows in June, and also happily buy and push all sorts of anti-trans and anti-queer content too, because bigots have money, and most people don’t care, and BEST OF ALL… they can play both sides in the media. Every time a reporter calls them up for a wishy-washy corporate “We respect everyone’s rights” speech, that’s a win. That’s an ad.
And to them, that’s all we’re for.