Earlier this month, Niki Massey of Seriously?!? died. Dana has a roundup of memorial posts for Niki, and to that I would like to add one from Prismatic Entanglements. All I can say about Niki was I ran into her blog around February, and it just immediately clicked for me. I didn’t even know her and yet I feel this was a great loss. On a side note, she was also openly ace, although not known in the ace blogosphere.
In more positive news, new bloggers are now being added to FtB. I’ll link them all later, once they’ve been given a chance to settle. Now, for links from the past month.
Rebirth of Dudebro – Great American Satan shared this one in the comments, in response to the idea of atheist jerks. I definitely agree with the observation that the atheist dudebro type is systematic, and endlessly replenishes itself. Just the other week in the local student group, some new guy made jokes about Asians. Dude, you live in California, you can’t be that clueless.
When people complain about atheist assholes, I have a mix of feelings. First, I don’t necessarily believe you, because everyone is a jerk according to someone else. Second, you think you have it bad, but I willingly associate with these people on a frequent basis. Which maybe makes me a jerk too, although I’m a different kind of jerk.
Thoughts on cults – Ozy suggests replacing “cult” with “spiritual abuse”. “Cult” has the problem of targeting strange (but not necessarily harmful) behavior, and targeting new religions, whereas “spiritual abuse” can equally apply to major religions, and is not either/or. I largely agree with this, although I also agree with the first comment that “cult” captures a bunch of heuristic properties of a certain kind of problematic group.
I generally avoid calling groups cults because I think of it as basically an insult for new religions, and I don’t have any particular beef with new religions. On the contrary, since non-belief is gaining popularity among the younger generation, I fully expect to see more sympathetic atheistic new religions in my lifetime. [Read more…]