My preferred version of feminism is pretty fundamentally different from the equity flavour, and I don’t think that’s a minor squabble. The conversation generally goes something like this:
Equity Feminists (EFs): Equality of opportunity does not equal equality of outcome.
Me and Mine (Ms): Hard to say until we have equality of opportunity.
EFs: We DO have equality of opportunity!
Ms: I don’t think we do.
EFs: The law says we do.
Ms: That’s a good start! But the law can’t erase bias and harmful stereotypes. Those still exist.
EFs: No they don’t! You see sexism everywhere because you have a victim mentality. You’re the REAL misogynist.