Still writing about the earliest epoch of my childhood, in mid-California suburbs. Now, I don’t remember having seen Karate Kid back then, but I must have, because one year I wanted to be a The karate kid for halloween.  Ralph Macchio was a barefoot king, and by gum I would be barefoot as well… but no, mom kibosh’d that shit.  I felt like the costume was ruined.  Probably my tender feets were grateful tho, especially as this was before plastic bottles were more prevalent, and there was broken glass fuckin’ everywhere.

This post is about excursions, trips, jaunts even.  Things that didn’t happen at home.  Some of this was in the homes of family members I didn’t really know.  I think my aunt Margaret was one, my aunt Pat was another.  I remember little about them from that time, but Pat’s condo had exercise equipment and a refrigerator full of one of the early diet pops – Tab.  I wonder if it contributed to her colon cancer later on, or if that was just the same mutation that was likely to blame for mine.  Only known LGBTetc person from that generation of my ancestors, a Frisco dyke as they say.  I did see her again as an old lady, slept in that same condo one night as a bald-headed starving artist.  Exchanged some awkward emails with her when needing a favor; did not pan out.  She was a privately cold and publicly difficult person to get along with for more than brief times.  My brother got along with her better, while living in the Bay Area for college.

Back to the kid years.  At some point we were at a family member’s house with a swimming pool in the backyard.  My brother almost got himself drowned, not sure how.  My dad remembers the incident as him arriving to see that our mom, who was supposed to be watching us, had her nose buried in a book and missed it – that  he had to dive in and save the boy.  I don’t even remember him being there.  In my mind it could have been our mom that saved him, but I’d trust his memory of this better since he wasn’t six years old.

I recall seeing the drawings by a cousin, a teenage boy who drew nothing but cars.  I was plenty impressed.  There’s a picture from around that time of me sitting on the couch with a teenage boy and I feel like there was some implication from someone somewhere at sometime that the kid was up to no good.  No idea who this was or how true that was.  Pretty sure it wasn’t my Bay Area hipster cousin Dave, who looks like Dave Gahan, tho I think he does work on cars.

There was a lot of dry grass in the world, yellow and scratchy.  In my grandparents’ driveway I got stung by tripping and landing with my hand on a dead bee.  Same driveway where I lost a fingernail in a car door.  I just remembered my grandmother had a red volkswagen bug.

We went to a family reunion with a bunch of people I never knew and will never know.  Again, it was a situation of wealth, the cornucopia opened for all the little goblins who stole into the banquet chamber, and I was left for years afterward associating the term “family reunion” with nice food that I wasn’t allowed to have.  It was in a large park with green grass and covered picnic areas, with heavy wooden beams.  Frisbees flew.  I don’t even remember now what the nice food was, aside from watermelon.

We went on at least one, possibly more excursions to mountains and forests.  On one such occasion I almost got hit by a car, running across a road – one of those roads that curves around a hill and has no need for crosswalks or sidewalks.  Mom yelled on me.  On another trip, my dad got a tick on his ass, and my mom got it out while we were standing around, looking away.  There were big trees and a big wooden suspension bridge there.  Might it have been the famous Redwood Forest?  My dad has a deep voice and at some points in his life has successfully come off as Joe Coolguy, but I remember many more occasions of him suffering humiliations and defeats.

For that and other trips, I remember the car we were in – a big rusty white station wagon I’ve previously mentioned.  Once again, my midj’ing of it:

I remember vaguely sleeping in it, with the back seats folded forward.  Car interiors now tend to be plastic; this was unyielding and cold metal.  A thin sleeping bag doesn’t much improve that, but it’s fun to feel adventurous.

I might remember more bits and bobs about this part of my life sometime, but for now, one last thing that stands out for me.  We used to go to a big drive-in theater.  In my memory it was much much larger than the late-surviving one from my town of Auburn WA, which finally shuffled off the mortal coil in 2012.

I don’t know how old I was, but I must have felt like a non-presence in the back seat – some assumption I would pass out hard enough they could watch whatever they wanted without forming lifetime memories in my skullpiece.  Guess again, fools!  I remember impressions of a racecar driver movie with one brief scene of full frontal nudity.  Was it Stroker Ace?  There was one with Kenny Rogers, right?  Why am I imagining there was one with John Denver?  Don’t @ me bro.

I will also cherish the memories of memories of Dolly Parton and co-stars doing weird adult things in Nine to Five.  I’d put Dabney Coleman in bondage too.  Understandable…  As much as the movie was ostensibly about ladies getting revenge for dude malfeasance, in retrospect it feels like a masochist’s wet dream.  Who’s been a naughty boy?  Don’t hurt me ladies.  Wink.

We watched some kind of Disney movies too.  At some point in my life, I’ve seen Snow White, Cinderella, 101 Dalmations, and The Rescuers, any one of which might have been in that theater, as far as my brain can work out.  But more memorable is what I was not supposed to be seeing.

Looking out the back window while some kid movie was playing in front, I saw an adult cartoon that strains believability.  I don’t think it was Fantastic Planet, though you’re going to want to tell me it was.  It was much pervier.  In my faint baby memories, it involved cartoon colored people in a fantasy environment, with their naughty bits all hanging out, and sex scenes.  No, not Heavy Metal either.  In my head, the plot was about somebody losing his turquoise cartoon wiener and trying to find it, like the story of Detachable Penis by King Missile, long form.  At some point in the 1990s, I came across a likely suspect for this movie at a Suncoast Video in the Supermall.  I thought for sure I’d remember what it was called this time, but no.  Suncoast went out of business and I never saw it again.  Back to KinderTrauma with my ass.

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