I’ve been doing it wrong. I was looking over creationist responses to my arguments that Haeckel’s embryos are being misused by the ID cretins, and I realized something: they don’t give a damn about Haeckel. They don’t know a thing about the history of embryology. They are utterly ignorant of modern developmental biology. Let me reduce it down for you, showing you the logic of science and creationism in the order they developed.
Here’s how the scientific and creationist thought about the embryological evidence evolves:

An observation: vertebrate embryos show striking resemblances to one another.
An explanation: the similarities are a consequence of shared ancestry.
Ongoing confirmation: Examine more embryos and look more deeply at the molecules involved.

Creationist thinking
A premise: all life was created by a designer.
An implication: vertebrate embryos do not share a common ancestor.
A conclusion: therefore, vertebrate embryos do not show striking resemblances to one another.