In case you were wondering, it is entirely possible to have a memorial/funeral service with absolutely no religious overtones (or even undertones, or, frankly, tones). My estimate is that a bit less than half of the people there were atheists… a bit less than a third were openly atheist, though that is a hard thing to know.
I had a blatantly atheist speech prepared, but only on the condition that a drastically religious speech called out for mine. I was very happy to give my non-blatantly atheist speech. Along with many other heartfelt recollections, from many others.
All in all, it was beautiful.
Thanks for your patience.
But did it blatantly rhyme?
Anyway, sorry for your loss.
I haven’t been to many funerals, but the few I have been to, the service was overly religious. It’s good to know there are non-religious ones.
My condolences for your loss.
My condolences!
P.s.
Did your other speech by any chance start with: XX may be dead – but so is God! Ha in your face!
Condolences, Cuttlefish.
The last funeral service I attended was rather ecumenical, though for a Jewish friend. The widow was Christian. There were no overt religious tones. It was an affectionate, respectful commemoration. Afterward I complimented the rabbi on his warm and sensitive treatment, one that even an atheist could find comfortable and comforting. When I mentioned that I was an atheist, his reply was, “Thank God!” We both had a good chuckle.
I’m sorry for your loss.
This sounds very similar to the last funeral I attended, for the father of a close friend. I’m glad it was nice (as nice as a ritual of loss and death can be; while sad, I know from my experience that the reminiscence and socializing can also be quite enjoyable), and I offer my condolences and well-wishes.