Sofia Nelson is a public defender in Detroit. They are also transgender. They became close friends with JD Vance when they entered law school together in 2010 and kept in touch with him and followed his career and even attended his wedding. They say that while Vance was always conservative, he used to be thoughtful and compassionate and respectful of other people’s views and they were shocked by the dark turn that he took when ran for the US senate in Ohio in 2022, when he adopted Trump’s cruel and dismissive tone when talking about people, and that ended their friendship. In an interview with the Detroit Free Press, Nelson gave more details about how Vance changed around the time he was considering running for the Ohio senate in 2018.
There was no path forward for him as a never-Trumper. He essentially turned his back on his values and reconstituted himself, not only changing his position on every imaginable issue, but also his tone. The decency, the thoughtfulness and the desire to understand disappeared, and now he mimics Donald Trump with this cruelty and name calling.
I think that is well captured in the “cat lady” controversy. … That was just never present in him. I mean, he was sarcastic and contemptuous of some elitism, for sure, as am I. But he never exhibited the kind of cruelty that he exhibits now in his public persona. That really changed when he decided to reconstitute himself as a MAGA Republican. So it wasn’t just his position on LGBTQ+ issues or immigration or police brutality that’s completely changed — I mean, this is a man who was incredibly sympathetic and understanding about the overpolicing and the brutality of policing against Black Americans, and that’s reflected in our email exchanges. … Every conceivable issue he’s changed his position on, but he’s also changed the way he talks about people.
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