Just go already!


I have been watching with astonishment the dogged efforts by Luis Rubiales, the president of Spain’s football federation (RFEF), to stay on in his position despite calls from all sides for him to leave. This has been a major news story for several days.

It all began after the Spanish women’s team won the World Cup for this first time in its history. In the jubilation that followed, as the players went in a line after the final game to be congratulated by Rubiales and others, he grabbed forward Jenni Hermoso’s head and kissed her full on the lips. In the uproar that followed, he claimed that the kiss had been consensual, which Hermoso denied.

To add insult to injury, Rubiales had later ordered the coaching staff to attend a speech given by him at an extraordinary meeting of the RFEF where he defended his actions and blasted “false feminism” and a “social assassination” of his character and vowed not to resign. That was not all the offensive things he did.

In his speech, Rubiales made it clear he was seeking to curry favour with the federation’s 140 members, just six of whom are women. He began with an apology for grabbing his crotch, describing it as an “unfortunate” gesture made in the “euphoria” of the moment. The gesture – made as the country’s 16-year-old princess was nearby – was supposedly directed at the team’s coach, Vilda, as a tribute. “I have to apologise to the royal family,” he said. “It wasn’t very edifying.”

Truly a classy guy.

But his days are surely numbered. There has been an increasing clamor for Rubiales to resign. Almost the entire coaching staff has resigned in protest.

Things are so bad that even the international controlling body for football FIFA, hardly a paragon of virtue, took action against him.

The joint resignation statement [of the coaches] came hours after Fifa said Rubiales would immediately be suspended “from all football-related activities at national and international level” for an “initial period of 90 days, pending the disciplinary proceedings” that were opened against him earlier this week.

The Fifa disciplinary judge, Jorge Palacio, said “in order to preserve, among other factors, the fundamental rights” of Hermoso, Rubiales was also ordered “to refrain, through himself or third parties, from contacting or attempting to contact” her and those close to her.

The statement also said the Spanish football federation, which earlier threatened to take legal against Hermoso, had been ordered to refrain from contacting her and those close to her.


Spain’s government has also got into the act.

Spain’s government — via its Higher Council for Sports — filed a lawsuit Friday alleging that Rubiales violated the country’s sports laws on two counts: for an alleged abuse of power and for allegedly committing acts that tarnished the dignity and decorum of a sporting event. If found guilty, Rubiales could be ruled unfit to hold office.

Spain’s Secretary of State for Sports Víctor Francos, who heads the sports council, said FIFA’s decision “reinforces and reaffirms that the path that the government of Spain announced yesterday was correct.”

The last straw should be the fact that the entire women’s team that won the World Cup has said that they will not play for the national team as long as Rubiales remains in office. All 23 members of the World Cup squad as well as 56 other female players signed on the the letter.

The England team that lost the final to Spain has come out in solidarity with their Spanish counterparts.

Late on Friday, England’s Lionesses – who were defeated by Spain in the World Cup final – released a statement supporting the players’ boycott.

“Unacceptable actions allowed to happen by a sexist and patriarchal organisation. Abuse is abuse and we have all seen the truth,” the England team posted on social media.

“The behaviour of those who think they are invincible must not be tolerated and people shouldn’t need convincing to take action against any form of harassment. We all stand with you, @jennihermoso and all players of the Spanish team.”

If that is not a death warrant for him, I don’t know what is.

The issues here illustrate more than the sense of entitlement that makes sports officials think that they can kiss women athletes at will. One has to ask why people like Rubiales are so determined to stay in power when anyone with a shred of dignity and self-respect would never have done such a thing in the first place and when they did so and were widely condemned, would have resigned. It is because being a sports administrator at the national and international levels brings with it enormous perks and benefits and is rife with opportunities for corruption and personal enrichment, all at the expense of the athletes and fans. Football and Olympics bodies are notorious for this but they are by no means the only ones.

There is a lot of money and perks sloshing around in professional sports and there are enough people who are anxious to get their hands on it. People like Rubiales are drawn to its like flies to honey.

He has ruined what should have been a period of great celebration in Spain.

Comments

  1. Pierce R. Butler says

    [Rubiales] has ruined what should have been a period of great celebration in Spain.

    But he has created a turning point which may well benefit Spanish culture for generations after everyone’s forgotten this abuse.

  2. sonofrojblake says

    It’s not Rubiales’s actions that are the most astonishing here.

    From the Guardian:
    “The Spanish football federation has threatened to sue Jenni Hermoso, the player at the centre of a row over its president’s conduct, for lying and defamation.

    It has also threatened to sue the 79 women’s football players who signed a letter in which they refused to play for their country as long as Luis Rubiales remained in his post.”

    https://www.theguardian.com/football/2023/aug/26/spain-football-federation-threatens-to-sue-protesting-female-players

  3. says

    Why was it too difficult for him to shake hands with Hermoso?

    The only shock is that he didn’t also “pat her on the behind”. And probably the only reason he didn’t was being on a higher step than she was.

  4. John Morales says

    I saw that story, it being all over the news.

    I saw its beginning, too.

    (Not like she kneed him in the groin at the time or whatever, is it?)

    The kiss – delivered on stage during the official post-match ceremony – was captured on camera and has prompted outrage on social media.

    Hermoso said on a live stream afterwards that she “didn’t like it”.

    In comments later provided to media she appeared to clarify her position, saying it was a “natural gesture of affection”.

    “It was a totally spontaneous mutual gesture because of the immense joy that winning a World Cup brings,” said Hermoso, in comments given to AFP by the Spanish federation. “The president and I have a great relationship, his behaviour with all of us has been outstanding and it was a natural gesture of affection and gratitude.”

    (https://www.theguardian.com/football/2023/aug/21/luis-rubiales-kiss-outrage-spanish-football-fa-president-womens-world-cup-final-spain-jenni-hermoso)

    One has to ask why people like Rubiales are so determined to stay in power when anyone with a shred of dignity and self-respect would never have done such a thing in the first place and when they did so and were widely condemned, would have resigned.

    Rubiales lacks even a shred of dignity and self-respect, in your estimation.
    I doubt that is his own estimation.

  5. John Morales says

    Intransitive:

    Why was it too difficult for him to shake hands with Hermoso?

    Why even make physical contact whatsoever?

    (Degrees, not kind)

  6. Silentbob says

    @ 4,5 Morales

    Weak attempt to downplay sexual assault is weak.

    she said, the incident had initially left her in “shock”, but she was now speaking out. “I feel the need to denounce what happened because I believe that no person, in any work, sports or social environment, should be a victim of this type of non-consensual behaviour,” she said. “I felt vulnerable and the victim of an aggression, an impulsive, machista [chauvinistic] act, out of place and without any consent on my part. Simply put, I was not respected.”

    [… ]

    She said that she had repeatedly rebuffed the Spanish federation’s request to make a comment that would justify Rubiales’ act and lessen the pressure on the football chief. Even so, she claimed that the federation had continued to approach her, as well as her friends and family. “I’m sure that as a world champion national team we do not deserve such a manipulative, hostile and controlling culture,” she added.

    Her statement was issued soon after a joint statement that said the World Cup champions would not return to play for the national team as long as the leadership remained in place. Along with all 23 players from the World Cup squad, the statement was signed by 56 other female football players.

    Jenni Hermoso “did not consent” to being kissed by Rubiales
    (first set of square brackets in the original)

    I’ve seen video of this guy elsewhere, can’t remember where, and he’s super handsy, bearhugging each member of the team one by one after a win, lifting them off the ground, etc. Comes across as El Creepo.

  7. sonofrojblake says

    @4:

    In comments later provided to media she appeared to clarify her position, saying it was a “natural gesture of affection”.

    “It was a totally spontaneous mutual gesture because of the immense joy that winning a World Cup brings,” said Hermoso, in comments given to AFP by the Spanish federation.

    A slow witted child would have read the above and been suspicious. But not John Morales @4, presenting this as evidence, alongside the fact that having just won the world cup and in front of a world TV audience a professional footballer didn’t have the presence of mind to knee in the groin the president of the national sports federation. It’s that kind of hesitation creeps depend on… but John… I suspect you already know that.

    Hermoso has of course since stated baldly what any slow witted child would already have known -- that she didn’t say those thing and that the Spanish FA had made them up to protect Rubiales.

  8. John Morales says

    Ah yes, so problematic!

    Weak attempt to downplay sexual assault is weak.

    You imagine that’s an attempt to downplay sexual assault? Heh.

    A slow witted child would have read the above and been suspicious.

    A more mature person would have noted how the story has developed.

    Obviously, it was an unsolicited grab and kiss, no question about it.
    After an unsolicited big hug.
    But it’s a story that has developed.

    Entre risas y algún grito sorprendido, varias jugadoras reaccionaron en directo al vídeo del beso. Jenni Hermoso, por su parte, reconocía de manera espontánea qué le había parecido: “Pero no me ha gustado, ¿eh? ¿Y qué hago yo?”, decía delante de sus compañeras de equipo. Después, Rubiales bajó al vestuario para volver a felicitar a las jugadoras y las invitó a un viaje a Ibiza “a la boda de Jenni y Luis”.

    Pasaron varias horas, en las que sobre todo figuras de la política denunciaron el vídeo, hasta que los protagonistas, ahora sí también Rubiales, volvieron a pronunciarse. “Ha sido la emoción del momento, no hay nada más allá. Se va a quedar en una anécdota. Segurísimo que no va a ir a más”, dijo Jenni ante los micrófonos de COPE.

    (https://www.elespanol.com/deportes/futbol/20230821/caras-jenni-hermoso-no-gustarle-beso-rubiales-decir-carino/788421156_0.html)

  9. birgerjohansson says

    When an ultra-rotten organisation like FIFA thinks it is bad, then it *really* is bad.
    I like football, but a lot of the bosses should be dumped. Preferably into the place where USS Indianapolis sank.

  10. Silentbob says

    Another example of this guy being totally normal with a female player.
    (/sarcasm)

    (Could you imagine doing this with a male player?)

    El Creepo. It’s a dominance display. He treats them like his playthings.

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