BenBaz Aziz did an interview for Atheist Alliance International with a transsexual woman in Saudi Arabia…which is not one of the best places to be a trans woman. BenBaz is hoping people will share it.
9- Tell us about the discrimination by the family.
Growing up in misogynistic society, surely my family will see females are inferior to males. The idea that I will “become” as they think a female, is not acceptable. They have no idea about the difference between gender and sex . So, they think I will “shift” to female,which is the inferior sex. From this vision, you can imagine how they are misguided about the truth.
They consider me a “disgrace”, “shame” and wanting to challenge or to drag attention. I have faced a lot of hate speech, violence and threats of informing authorities from the people I love the most.
I have to hide my truth to be able to live, my family would certainly kill me if they had proof I am taking hormones. I know I will mostly lose them forever, when I complete transition and live as a woman – the true reality. It is not my fault, and I didn’t ask for any of this ! I was born a girl, they assigned me incorrectly, so what can I do ?
I guess the worst part is, you live all these years in a lie, and you have to sacrifice everything and the people you loved and lived with, played with and had nice memories with. Just to get rid of this lie!!
I hope things get better for her.
Kamaka says
Reading this is a stab wound-it ain’t mostly, dear.
Blanche Quizno says
“my family would certainly kill me”
That says it all. Right there. Love and intolerance cannot possibly coexist. Only one will prevail.
Trebuchet says
If her family doesn’t kill her, the Saudi government probably will.
Gordon Willis says
Well, I wish her every good wish. I hope she can get out of that horrible place and find a life.