Recently, there has been some complaining about those horrible, awful, draconian anti-harassment policies at conferences. In particular, the Skepticon policy was singled out as particularly wicked and counterproductive (by a certain individual whose nickname ends in “00t”), especially this clause:
Additionally, exhibitors in the expo hall, sponsor or vendor booths, or similar activities are also subject to the anti-harassment policy. Booth staff (including volunteers) should not use sexualized clothing/uniforms/costumes, or otherwise create a sexualized environment.
That seems eminently reasonable to me. It’s targeted specifically at ‘booth babe’ culture, where women are used as sexualized props to peddle commercial products. This trend is at its worst in the tech world, and the Consumer Electronics Show in Vegas epitomizes the problem: a company put up an elaborate display featuring four women wearing nothing but body paint posing to draw in attention. (NSFW link, with photo of these women)
The women looked straight ahead with bored expressions, and were not allowed to interact with attendees. The company’s own Instagram feed described them as "fembots."
It was not immediately clear how this display was supposed to relate to the product in question, a hard drive.
It’s obvious! Men like to look at naked women, and only men ever buy or use hard drives. And when men are using their hard drives, they like naked women to plug them in. Duh. Just like only men are atheists and skeptics, and they like to imagine all their women naked and serving them little freshly peeled dollops of critical thinking.
Pteryxx says
This injustice has been overlooked for far too long! WHERE ARE THE MALE BOOTH BABES!
Marcus Ranum says
Because nothing screams your respect for prospective customers like having booth bimbos.
jba55 says
I’m surprised that this is even an issue at Skepticon. I understand the concept for trade shows (disclaimer, understand not condone), sex sells, men are the predominate people there, blah blah. But at a skeptic conference? Doesn’t make sense to me.
@1: I agree! Equal opportunity objectification! I’ve half a mind to show up wearing a thong and with “Reason!” painted across my chest. Although I’d probably get thrown out. And rightly so.
TX_secular says
The easiest form of advertising is to use sex to sell the product. I always see promotions using sex to sell as a lazy campaign for companies that do not want to take the time to actually convince their customers to buy their products based on the attributes of the product itself.
chigau (無味ない) says
“hard” drive.
*snicker*
sc_179e0292fa077e16a32f6cf994e62895 says
PZ–I realize you probably have no control over this, but FTB, and this blog, frequently feature ads with bimbos in T-shirts. Irony alert.
PZ Myers says
It isn’t an issue, yet. But these conferences are all growing. This is a preemptive guide.
I do not understand the concept for trade shows — I was being sarcastic at the end of my post. The linked article reveals that I’m not alone, since many people are wondering what the hell a tableaux of naked women does to sell hard drives. Also, ask yourself this simple question: why are men the the predominate target of this marketing? They are not the only consumers of electronics, and I did not make my recent purchase of a 4tb drive on the basis of the attractiveness of the breasts on the ads.
The marketers who assume that this kind of exhibit is the way to sell gadgets are probably the same fucking idiots who when they do decide to market to women, just paint their gadget pink.
Louis says
[Large sarcasm, possibly as much as 3 kiloDougs]
I wonder if we could make other equally “interesting” human displays to attract viewers/buyers to our product and booth. Hmmmm I know!
Hard drives are hard working right? Wanna know who else works hard and does whatever you tell them? Slaves. So let’s have a display with lots of black gentlemen and ladies chained together miming work relentlessly. Because you know the overwhelming majority of people who work in tech are white, right? And some white people used to keep black slaves and black is a very tech colour, it’s entirely appropriate! Yay! After all who could find such an innocent reference and attractive expression of our product’s work abilities to be in any way problematic? Hey it just reflects reality, amirite?
[/Sarcasm]
Louis
jackiepaper says
Scblahblahbullshit,
What exactly makes a woman in a T-shirt a “bimbo”? You do realize that those website sell T-shirts to both men and women? You also know that they frequently depict a bearded man in a T-shirt too, right? Is he also a bimbo? Oh, that’s right, only women can be denigrated as such.
Someone is projecting their sexism on others, I think.
PZ Myers says
There is a lot of discussion in our back channel about the ads — they suck, we know it. They’re so bad that they don’t generate much revenue with click-throughs, either. I know it’s a priority with Ed Brayton to get better, more appropriate ads in place, and he’s busily researching away on the topic.
But man, we don’t have a lot of choice right now.
chigau (無味ない) says
Oh the irony!
bimbospeople wearing t-shirts to sell …. t-shirts.Matt Penfold says
To me it just suggests the company’s real message is “Our products are not very good and/or are over-priced but since men have short attention spans here are some tits to make you forget how crappy our products our”.
It is a message that is demeaning to women, and to men.
pentatomid says
sc_whateverthefucknumbercrap,
You’re of course entirely correct in that PZ has no control over the adds, so why did you bring it up? Also, if it’s the t-shirt adds you’rre referring to… Yeah, how strange that adds for t-shirts show models, you know, wearing t-shirts… The only irony here is in your head.
michaeld says
I`m consistently baffled that those two lines are so often misrepresented as some sort of attack on what attendees can wear. It just defies basic reading comprehension.
Can we maybe stop calling the models bimbos?
And if FtB had more control over its ads probably see less astrology, guns, knives, body armour, christian apologetics etc.
anne mariehovgaard says
It’s not even particularly effective. Research (unfortunately I saw this in a book and can’t find a link) suggests that sexy stuff makes people notice ads and remember them… but it’s so distracting they’re less likely to remember what the ad was FOR :p
Akira MacKenzie says
Pytrexxx @ 1
Remember when the film version of “Watchmen” come out a couple of years back? In my slice of geek culture, it was largely hailed as a good film (I agree, it was horribly underrated) until…
“…Except that blue guy running around naked, man! I didn’t want to see his dick the whole movie! I’m not a meat gazer…”
That’s the reason why there are no nude men at these expositions. Like the visage of the gorgon is supposed to turn the unwary to stone, the sight of a penis is supposed to turn a red-blooded heterosexual male gay.
It makes me wonder how these idiots can watch porn.
Louis says
I also find it interesting, by the way, that a sceptical conference would have a segment that needs scantily clad attractive ladies to sell stuff. I’m not for a moment suggesting the conferences should be stuffy affairs, but the last chemistry conference I went to, for example, had a remarkable lack of exposed breasts and taut bikini briefs and body paint.
Granted, I, a heterosexualish male and thoroughgoing sexual deviant (class one, purple cluster, many tours of duty), found that lack to be a terrible crisis for me. I had to imagine benzene rings as areolae and carbonyl groups as lady’s special areas (okay, I’ve just creeped myself out…impressive)…oh no wait I didn’t. Even the pharmaceutical booths, not renowned for their stellar adherence to ethical best practise (ahhhh my industry. Making the shenanigans of homoeopaths look childlike by comparison), had a conspicuous titty-lack. How I managed to engage with the reps and various salesfolk I shall never know.
There was this one woman, remarkably attractive as it happened who I SPOKE to. Like a PERSON about her product. I know! Political correctness gone mad. Obviously I should have encouraged her to take off her professional work suit and slather herself with honey and sprinkles whilst gyrating to Madonna’s Beutiful Strange….okay I’ve gone somewhere else now what was my point? Oh yes, booth babes (I’m not a fan of the word bimbo, at least their bimbosity has not been established) entirely unnecessary. Fanfare, lights, attractive PRODUCTS, knowledgeable staff, handouts, professional production these things I find attract me to a product. Weird. But then I am a lefty liberal feminazi thought policeman who has this strange idea that women might well be people with their own ideas and not necessarily eye candy for me. Oh and they seem also to be equal participants in my industry, at least as good and productive as I am. Strange…how do I reconcile this with having fun?
[/snark]
Louis
jba55 says
@PZ: Sarcastic or not, what you said is unfortunately too true for far too many people. It’s a cheap sales tactic, relevance isn’t the goal, it’s to draw in the rubes or whatever they’re calling customers these days. What I do find encouraging is all the negative press these types of tactics are getting now, it’s hopefully a sign that things are changing. It’s something that’s been going on for decades without anyone batting an eyelash, but now people are starting to wonder wtf is going on. A step in the right direction at least.
I’ll have to find the source, but I read a few months ago about a gaming con that actually banned booth babes. There was an uproar, but the con was still packed.
“The marketers who assume that this kind of exhibit is the way to sell gadgets are probably the same fucking idiots who when they do decide to market to women, just paint their gadget pink.”
I would bet you’re right.
Nicole Glynn says
I’m a web designer and this is an issue that has blown up in the design community lately, too. There has been some backlash about web design/dev conferences having speaker line ups that are composed entirely of white males when the industry is about 25% female (well, 25% female for design, only 9% for development) according to a 2011 survey.
The comment has been made that the speakers are all men because women don’t want to speak/don’t attend conferences – the flip side of which is that many women in the web industry don’t speak or don’t attend conferences because of the speakers and events being male-dominated.
The whole thing has a lot of parallels with what’s been going on in the skeptic community.
Nicole Glynn says
Oh, and there was this: Diversity? That’s for racists.
Matt Penfold says
I don’t know if it was specifically about web development, but I recall a conference was cancelled recently because the organisers got criticised because every single person they invited to speak was white and male. Rather than go away and have a re-think they cancelled the whole thing.
Bronze Dog says
Yeah, going all the way to body paint instead of clothing really makes it that much more disturbing. I don’t know the scale of the booth babe thing, but when it’s that explicit, I’d feel dirty from being in the vicinity. I think being more aware has kind of put me off the idea as a whole, anyway. If I went to some convention and booth babes were heavily involved, I’d feel insulted, like the advertisers were assuming me and my fellow geeks were all hopeless virgins starved for the most remote prospects of sexual contact.
I suppose it’s kind of like Linkara and over-sexed comics: If he wanted porn, he’d get porn, not a comic book. If I wanted to look at scantily clad women, I’d go to a strip club, not a convention.
devnll says
Booth babes at technical conventions is such a mish-mash of sexism and pandering to stereotype by marketers _both ways_ that I have trouble deciding which reason to hate them for the most. You drape half-naked women over your gear to sell to geeks, because obviously all geeks are spotty bespectacled nerds who would never talk to an actual woman, so you deliberately manufacture the appearance of a fake captive one for them to safely talk to, which will presumably send them into such a tizzy of excitement that they won’t notice that your hardware is crap.
Bah. Any real geek will be buying hardware or software because of its specs, which they have researched, and nothing else. I honestly think the booth babes are sexual plumage for the marketing folks – their way of showing off to the other marketing folks, not the customers. It’d be interesting to see a study done on whether thay have any effect on sales. Personally, I see naked ladies draped over your hard drives and my first thought* is: “Wow; wonder what they’re trying to hide. Bet those drives _suck_.”
*About the drives anyways. It may be beaten to the punch by “Wow; their job sucks.”
jamessweet says
I used to think a lot of this pushback had to do with not understanding the context. I can totally understand how a provision restricting the dress of conference exhibitors would seem onerous at first glance, but in the context of the “booth babes” phenomenon it seems both necessary and proper (and also serves to reassure that someone who is dressing the way they want and not being exploited is unlikely to have this clause enforced on them just because somebody else doesn’t care for the way they dress). To be perfectly honest, when I first heard of those sort of “dress code” provisions (like a year ago — this will become important in a moment) I was like, “Wait, that doesn’t sound right…”, then somebody said “Booth babes”, and I was like, “Oh, yeah, sure, that makes perfect sense.”
So yeah, I used to think the people pushing back just didn’t get the context. But surely thunderf00t knows the context by now, so that’s no longer a valid excuse. Well, if it was ever a valid excuse, that is. But it surely isn’t now.
screechymonkey says
michaeld @14:
True. And it should hardly be a surprising concept that a convention would set different, stricter requirements for exhibitors and speakers than it would for attendees. I expect that any skeptic convention would allow young earth creationists, Bigfoot hunters, etc. to attend as long as they aren’t disruptive — but wouldn’t give them speaking slots, and probably wouldn’t let them set up booths.
a_ray_in_dilbert_space says
OK, perhaps we can take as a lesson of how entrenched sexism is in our culture the way the fact that many immediately called the booth babes or for that matter the t-shirt models bimbos. We know nothing about these women. For all we know, they could be taking this “modeling job” as a way of earning cash to pay for med school so they could be a fricking brain surgeon.
Yes the objectification of women to sell merchandise is tacky, but the women are not the authors of the tackiness. They’re just punching a time clock wearing their particular work uniform. Can we at least treat them with respect they deserve as human beings?
Gregory Greenwood says
This ongoing trope within advertising that “sex sells, and so it is OK to treat women as barely human props” is disgusting, but probably not quite as disgusting as some of the comments on the linked article.
Seriously, in the interests of not sending yourself into a terminal spiral of despising your own species, don’t read them.
Gregory Greenwood says
Akira MacKenzie @ 16;
I wonder if they all keep mirror-shields handy for that purpose, or would such high-sheen equipment be just a bit too fabulous for those Real Manly Men(TM)?
They probably do the one thing that can make most mainstream porn even more problematic than it already is – state that:-
“Real men only watch the ‘girl-on-girl’ stuff.”
jazzmac251 says
These are grown women fully capable of deciding for themselves if they want to get paid to stand around naked. They don’t need you or any other “knight in shining armor” riding to their rescue to inform them of how persecuted, marginalized, and/or disrespected they don’t realize they are. In fact, the whole trope popular in the current feminist movement (implied in this post and outright stated by Rebecca Watson) that women sometimes need to be “educated” or “informed” about how under-the-thumb-of-men they are is patronizing as hell. It’s built on the implied premise that women are incapable of making decisions about appropriate relationships with men (business or personal) on their own thus are in need of someone to do it for them.
I am not convinced of he notion that the actions or decisions of a single woman (e.g. serving as a naked-lady prop to sell merchandise) can and should reflect on the entire gender gender as a whole. Put another way, I think stripping is degrading to strippers, not necessarily the entire female gender.
This is just concern trolling.
SnowyBiscuit says
Agreed. For models it’s a job. Back in college, I did a number of modeling gigs because they paid way better than retail and took up far less of my time.
I did not magically become stupid because I was wearing something skimpy. Still a geek, still loved computers, still had that 3.8 GPA….just was wearing a bikini.
Whether or not I lost feminist cred might be another story. But to be honest, I didn’t care. I paid my tuition with my money that I made legally.
nightshadequeen says
Why should stripping be degrading to strippers?
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
No, clueless cupcake, that’s reaching too high. You’re just wanking and expecting all of us to watch. Eww.
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
jazzmac251,
Well, at least you admit you’re just concern trolling. But you evidently didn’t read either the OP or the comments with any comprehension at all.
Rob Grigjanis says
This is never a problem at Apathetic Misanthrope Skepticons.
ronsullivan says
But What About the Menz?
Where da naked menz at?
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
I was wondering that too. The first part of that pointless wank post is to use the bigot buzzword ‘whiteknighting’ and declare that women make choices that should be above any reflection, criticism or thought because WHITEKNIGHTING! REBECCA WATSON!
And then, suddenly, he turns on a dime and declares the exact same thing he was just telling us it totally okay because women chose to do it, is demeaning to that one hypothetical stripper,and only that one hypothetical stripper, because everyone knows there’s no such thing as “society” or “culture” or “history”
makes perfect sense, right?
Kevin says
It’s probably a “razor” of some sort that the more indistinguishable your product is from the competition, the more you are forced to use sex to sell it.
Eg, “godaddy”.
jazzmac251 says
What the fuck? I meant that PZ’s post was just concern trolling. Do you not understand that or are you making some pathetic attempt to “turn my own words against me”?
@Nick, why don’t you explain it to using a thought-out argument instead of making a dismissive comment. I read the OP, I’ve been following this issue, and I side with Thunderf00t.
chigau (無味ない) says
Rob Grigjanis
That’s ’cause you never invite Rebecca Watson.
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
jazzmac251,
Because you’re a fuckwit who’s not worth more than a dismissive comment.
That’s because you’re a fuckwit.
jazzmac251 says
@nightshadequeen, as far as taking your clothes of for money can be seen as degrading, I think the degradation stops at the people performing the act and does not extend to all members of the gender. If you don’t see stripping as degrading, that’s fine by me.
chigau (無味ない) says
Caught one!
jazzmac251 says
@Nick Gotts
Fuck off, buddy. Grown-ups are talking.
roland says
I don’t get it. I thought people should be able to wear whatever they want without being harassed, but now you can’t wear something that’s too revealing?
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
Prima facie evidence you can’t comprehend the issue.
zekehoskin says
My favorite pair of signs:
DO NOT ENTER IF YOU ARE OFFENDED BY NUDITY
PROPER DRESS REQUIRED
My take on using near-nude models at a trade show: in the context of a society where people ARE offended by nudity, it’s offensive. In the context of a society where men are encouraged to go into a rampant frenzy at the sight of a nipple, it’s endangering to the women present. In a society free of sexual predation and nudity hangups (bring it on!), it would be pointless.
erikthebassist says
umm, ok, ignoring jazzmac the troll for a moment….
Ok I detest using sex to market products that having nothing to do with sex as well, but I’m sorry, I’m looking at that picture and I’m not thinking sex, I’m thinking art.
It’s not particularly good art, but I see at least an attempt at making an artistic statement using the human form. I don’t see this as a cheap attempt to use sex to sell.
Putting aside the asthetic quality of it all, which I think sucks, I just see something I might also expect to see in a modern art gallery.
Am I all alone on this? I know intent isn’t magic, but I really think the intent here was art and not sexualization.
athyco says
You can decide if you want me to pay you to stand around naked, jazzmac251. It would be in my backyard, however, because if I were to organize a conference, I’d have other goals in mind than admiring the curve of your flank.
Atheist/skeptic/freethought conventions and conferences have inclusion as their goal. The harassment policies as they regard the individual attendees focus on consent in interaction and responsible consensual behavior in public. The harassment policies as they regard the organizer, vendors, staff, and venue concern the atmosphere and presentation. You think that the upcoming North Texas Secular Convention (with Camp Quest) will be messaging “We’re inclusive!!” with six vendors competing for the least clad booth babes?
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
Which certainly doesn’t include you, cupcake, so you can stop pretending you have any standing to tell regulars to fuck off.
jazzmac251 says
@Illuminata
Where did I use the term “whiteknighting”? How is that bigoted?
@erikthebassist
Not trolling, just offering a dissenting opinion. So far everyone is just attacking me personally rather than offering up any actual argument for another perspective.
nightshadequeen says
Jazzmac:
Would you like to defend or reject this statement?
poxyhowzes says
I can make this really simple: the rule at conferences is:
“No member of the Vendor’s staff shall appear in any conference venue and/or at any time during the conference displaying less flesh than the least-clad member of the Vendor’s staff displays during exhibit hours. In implementing this rule, baldness shall not be counted as a display of flesh.
pH
athyco says
Jazzmack251, you said:
Shorthand for those 8 words is “white knight.” Stock literary character.
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
What a surprise, this wanking troll is a dipshit..
Here, let me quote you: “They don’t need you or any other “knight in shining armor” riding to their rescue to inform them of how persecuted, marginalized, and/or disrespected they don’t realize they are.”
That’s WHITEKNIGHTING! bigot buzzwording. And, seriously, if you don’t understand why that’s bigotted, you need to go the fuck away. You are in over your head here.
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
I’m not your buddy, scumbag.
Look, fuckwit, I’ll explain the point to you. The clause is not there because nudity is considered degrading either to the naked individual or to women as a whole. It’s there because a lot of people, including men, and indeed including men and women who enjoy looking at naked women in some contexts, do not consider a sceptical or atheist conference an appropriate context for the creation of such a “sexualised environment”. Since there are plenty of places those who want to can go and look at naked women, no attendee loses by it.
Got it yet, shit-for-brains?
athyco says
Then why not a life-size poster or large-screen video, erik?
jazzmac251 says
@athyco
Thank you for presenting an actual argument!
I think that it would be up to the event staff to only allow in vendors they feel reflect their event appropriately. All of these rules are unnecessary, I think. Has any skeptical event had a booth that featured “booth babes”?
The problem with these rules is that they are overly broad and subject to abuse. What EXACTLY constitutes “sexualized clothing/uniforms/costumes, or otherwise create a sexualized environment”? If a vendor at TAM, for example, has its booth staffed with pretty girls that chose to wear flashy “going-out” attire (which is often quite sexy) to get the attention of passers-by, are they going to be harassed by event staff demanding they cover themselves to the coordinator’s liking? If not, why not? It’s not like there are definite parameters around what is and isn’t sexual, especially at an adult event like TAM.
michaeld says
Jazz
The idea is if you grow up in society you internalize a lot of the messages it spreads both the good and the bad. You often don’t think about them unless they are challenged.
To pick an example closer to atheism someone in small town Texas might think:
Why shouldn’t the town hall meeting start with a prayer if the members are all church goers and it’s been going like this for the past 40 years? Besides who’s it harming any way its just some words people can just ignore them.
As you may well know there are actually reasons why this kind of behavior is wrong both legally and in the ways it others minority members of the community. However someone who has grown up in such an environment may not realise the problems unless say an atheist explains them to them. Even if the person is an atheist they may not know of say the constitutional problems unless someone educates them on it.
erikthebassist says
Athyco, you’d have to ask the artist I guess, or apply your own interpretation.
In fact, looking at this it’s conceivable to me that the artist might be trying to make a statement abut the objectification of women. The women here are canvases, unthinking, unfeeling canvases, objects…
Maybe it’s a poorly done but at least respectable attempt at making a feminist positive statement at a tech conference where booth babes are the norm? Is there any room for a benefit of the doubt here?
Gregory Greenwood says
jazzmac251 @ 38;
Wait – you know what Thunderf00t has said about sexism, and you still agree with him?
Talk about damned out of your own keyboard…
@ 42;
You know no one is going to take you seriously when you say things like this, right?
You have just stumbled into this forum from the wilderness of the internet, smelling strongly of MRA sites, and done the equivalent of squatting down and defecating liberally on the rug. You are somewhat lacking in credibility to be making any pronouncements at the moment, doubly so when you tell a well known regular to leave because the ‘grown-ups are talking’ when your level of understanding of the issues would shame the average three year old.
At this juncture – now that the ”it is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than open your mouth and remove all doubt” ship has well and truly sailed for you – I strongly advise you to bear in mind the first rule of holes.
Stop digging.
jazzmac251 says
@Illuminata
The phrase “knight in shining armor” in this context refers to someone riding to the rescue of someone else, being their champion, you know, like knights in fairy tales. I was saying that PZ is misplaced in his attempts to ride gallantly to the rescue of these damsels in distress, because the damsels in question are, in fact, not in distress at all.
How this is is bigoted is beyond me. “Bigot” is a very extreme label. You shouldn’t be so quick to label strangers with it based on a single comment that you clearly misunderstood.
jazzmac251 says
@Gregory Greenwood
“You know no one is going to take you seriously when you say things like this, right?”
Did you not see what this was in response to? He said to me:
“jazzmac251,
That’s because you’re a fuckwit.”
Comment #40
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
jazzmac251,
Jesus wept, you’re stupid. The point of having the rule is to provide guidance to both event staff and exhibitors. Of course the rule requires interpretation – like most rules, including actual laws – but potential exhibitors are warned by it that if they intend to staff their booth with “pretty girls” in sexy attire (you meant, of course, women – or maybe you’re thinking of the pedophile market), they should check with the organisers that what they intend is considered acceptable.
Pteryxx says
you not only side with Thunderfoot, you repeat his misrepresentations near-perfectly.
a_ray_in_dilbert_space says
Jizzmac251,
I don’t think you get it. Using female sexuality to sell to men is degrading to both men and women. It operates on the premise that women have nothing to offer men–no persuasive power–other than their sexuality, and that men have no rational ability to control their sexual desire. Do you see that this insults both men and women by trivializing human interactions?
athyco says
Conferences are not free. Even Skepticon involves travel and lodging expenses. The rules–KNOWN to the attendees ahead of time–are necessary so that the pool of attendees is not limited by uncertainty of their acceptance, their enjoyment, their safety.
And as for an organization like American Atheists banning “booth babes,” I’m almost positive that the subject has never come up because any vendor they’d choose would be likely already to have clientele who’d find it offensive. And why do you care what EXACTLY constitutes your quoted material? That’s between the convention and the vendor. If a vendor–who decides what the booth babes wear, not the women–puts them in clothing that the organizer thinks oversteps, then the ORGANIZER tosses out the VENDOR. The women aren’t harassed.
jazzmac251 says
@Nick
First of all, you need to learn to talk to people. I make a dissent comment and you’re calling me a stupid fuckwit and now this bullshit about pedophilia almost right out of the gate. What the fuck with wrong with you people? Is it possible to have a conversation here without immediately stooping to the lowest level possible?
Gregory Greenwood says
jazzmac251 @ 62;
With your every post this seems an ever more accurate assessment.
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
A simple statement of fact, as you’ve proved a number of times.
erikthebassist says
jazzmac,
You aren’t the first clueless anti-feminist to stumble in here unawares. The commentariate here has no patience for your type. Your arguments have been addressed here, thousands of times and have been shot down repeatedly and convincingly. You reek of being an MRA / slymepit troll.
The treatment you are getting is the result of 2 years now of history going back to elevatorgate of mysoginist fuckwits coming here and making clueless arguments, and so far, you fit the bill perfectly.
But I suspect you know this, and that’s why did, and still call you a troll.
athyco says
My benefit of the doubt involves (1) the likelihood of it being a feminist positive statement, (2) the venue and vendor and their history of booth babes versus feminist positive statements, and (3) a noticeable dichotomy between past booth babes and this example in order to be an effective feminist positive statement. (I don’t find that in–hey, booth babes were scantily clad before…let’s go for not clad at all!
My room for a benefit of the doubt is teeny tiny henincy, as my favorite aunt used to say.
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
jazzmac251,
First of all, you need to learn to talk to people.
I adapt my style to the person I’m talking to.
That’s because it was a fucking stupid comment.
A response to your infantilization of women.
A year and a half of dealing with MRA fuckwits leaves many of us with very little patience for one more.
Well, you could have tried doing so, but you didn’t.
unclefrogy says
I do not see the reason for the controversy or the discussion to continue indefinitely. If the organizers of any event in response to their intended attendees feel that they want to set up some kinds of rules for attendees and any presenters and marketers that are compliant with all laws and regulations that is their right and their decision. No?
I see the ban on booth babes as a “No Pimps” rule
but that is just me.
uncle frogy
SallyStrange: Elite Femi-Fascist Genius says
Jazzmac agrees with Tf00t when he says that conferences shouldn’t have harassment policies, because anything that’s really serious, the police can take care of?
Well, Jazzmac, Tf00t is a lying, sexist idiot. So when you say you’re on his side, that means you’re allying yourself with a lying, sexist idiot. You should not expect to get anything more than contempt and scorn in return.
erikthebassist says
athyco,
Mine is as well. I think given the context, history and current debate about booth babes in general, this is in poor taste and does nothing to advance a feminist positive message, again, even if that’s intent.
I think it might be, but intent isn’t magic as we know. The result is what counts and reading the comments on mashable, few people, if any, groked that intent or read it in to the imagery. Doods saw boobies and think that’s just swell, and women who have self respect saw women being used as objects, yet again, to sell a product to those doods, with no consideration that women might actually be interested in the damned thing too.
So, I withdraw my concern that we may have a misguided but well intentioned artist here.
athyco says
And I’d like to call your attention, jazzmac251, to the fact that erikthebassett and I are disagreeing about something in the OP. We’re made statements without inferring the intent of someone else. We’ve asked/answered questions. I may be persuaded; erik may be persuaded; we may let the conversation drop.
I have answered you mildly because I’m less battle scarred, just as a factor of time spent commenting. I don’t disagree with anyone who’s called you a fuckwit because there are other idiots who have jumped in that I have called far worse.
cactusren says
jazzmac:
Yes, and the conference needs to make clear to those vendors what is appropriate at their conference, which is exactly why the rules are necessary.
A different, but somewhat analagous situation: At a recent Society of Vertebrate Paleontology meeting, there was a vendor selling, among other things, vertebrate fossils. The society’s code of ethics is that the sale of vertebrate fossils is not to be encouraged. Armed with that, one of the organizers of the conference talked to the vendor, and those fossils were quickly taken off display. But if there were no rule or precedence for that, it could have been a much messier incident.
The point is that making clear what is considered acceptable within a given conference, up front, is always a good idea. If you choose not to go to conferences that restrict the use of sex to sell you shit, you’re perfectly free to not go. But some of us prefer those kinds of cons. (And for what it’s worth, there are no booth babes at SVP, and the vendors seem to do quite well.)
athyco says
Ha! Shoulda refreshed before posting about erik and me. :)
jazzmac251 says
You know what, you people are disgusting. Some valid points were made here and there, but it is impossible to even address them due to overwhelming urge to address every hateful, ludicrous personal insult first.
For the information of anyone interested, I’ve been following PZ for 5 or 6 years. It’s surprising that this is what his blog has become. You people are so insular it’s ridiculous. A person can’t even present a dissenting opinion without immediately being called every name in the book. I’d like to keep talking about this issue, but it seems like hardly any of you know how to talk to someone you disagree with without being INCREDIBLY offensive.
This just goes to show why nobody should ever join a “movement” of any kind. The big names of any movement have ideas that are appealing enough, but the rank-and-file are almost universally awful at reflecting the values their movement holds dear, meaning a sizable percentage of the people within the movement are people you wouldn’t give the time of day to. Atheist, Skeptic, Theist, Democrat, Republican – it doesn’t matter. The rank-and-file is rife with shitheads. That will likely never change because being shitheaded is a common human characteristic that no movement will likely ever cure.
Enjoy your insular environment. This is one long-time subscriber that is gone for good. If a blogger is only as good as the people that follows them, then I look forward to him leaving FTB.
erikthebassist says
Well, I wasn’t actually concerned from the beginning, just thought I’d get the line of argument our there and dismiss it in case any lurkers might have been thinking the same. =)
SallyStrange: Elite Femi-Fascist Genius says
No no no, athyco and erik! You’re doing it alllll wrong! You’re supposed to descend into a vicious circle of personal insults and acrimony until one or both of you get banned!
Oh wait, you’re not bigots trying to justify bigotry, you’re two rational people trying to work out how best to apply the principles of equality and humanism in real life situations.
Unlike jazzmac.
Carry on, then.
chigau (無味ない) says
Now I’m trying not to picture Paleontological BoothBabes.
SallyStrange: Elite Femi-Fascist Genius says
You lie, just like your pal Thunderfoot. Right here in this thread, there was an example of a person presenting a dissenting opinion without being called every name in the book.
It was the content of your opinion, and the disgusting combination of ignorance, prejudice, and arrogance behind it, that led people to insult you. Rightfully so.
Louis says
Jazzmac,
I wonder if you get the point behind my #8.
Louis (One of the “YOU disgusting people” I imagine)
chigau (無味ない) says
Why do they always end up saying this?
It’s like there’s a script.
screechymonkey says
Uh-oh, everyone. We’ve driven away jazzmac and his valuable contributions!
Let’s all take a moment to think about what we’ve done.
SallyStrange: Elite Femi-Fascist Genius says
I’m thinking hard… We really have improved the atmosphere around here! Great job, everyone! High fives all around.
erikthebassist says
Trust me Jazzmac when I comfortably say I speak for most every one; we really really truly hope you stick that flounce.
If you’ve been following the comments here for 6 years as you say, then you are even more clueless than we’d imagined. How could you think that vomit was going to go over well in any sense?
Not for nothing, if you were truly interested in the debate, and really were familiar with the culture here, you would have stuck with the substance and ignored the invective. Instead you result to tone trolling, which you should also know is not respectable in this culture.
I think you’re lying, you haven’t been following this blog for 6 years or you would know these things.
cactusren says
It seems like you might not have been paying much attention. Look, I don’t comment here as much as some others, so I’m not so weary of explaining the same damned concepts over and over. But if you really don’t understand why people here are angry with you, try reading any of the threads dealing with sexual harassment, and you’ll start to see why the regulars are tired of this bullshit.
Here, I’ll explain one thing for you: White-knighting is offensive because it plays off the trope of the damsel in distress who needs a man to swoop in and save her. See how that makes women into passive objects, and trophies to be won by knights, rather than, you know, autonomous people?
athyco says
Folks like jazzmac251 do baffle me with their inconsistency. He’d be among the first, with the Tf00t viewpoint, to say that there should be booth babes–you have the FREEDOM not to look at ’em because you don’t have the right not to be offended.
But when they come to argue and admit that there are good points being made against theirs, they are totally incapable of not looking at posts they find offensive in order to address them.
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
Translation: I’m a lying, ignorant coward, why didn’t you worship my completely pointless wanking? Thunderdouche likes my wanking! I’ll go wank there!
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
Promise?
abear says
What the fuck with wrong with you people? Is it possible to have a conversation here without immediately stooping to the lowest level possible?
What’s wrong with these people? They don’t have an honest argument to make so they resort to childish name calling. Got it you fuckwitted cupcake?
Notice they don’t call out Skepchicks for their nude calender or PZ for sexually harassing that woman on stage at Skepticon 3? It’s the “others” that are gender traitors and MRAs.
If you came here expecting a fair debate you came to the wrong place.
cactusren says
chigau:
I think they’d look like this: http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=12879921
screechymonkey says
Dear sweet FSM, abear just about filled my Bingo card in a single comment. That’s some cliche-dense trolling there!
Grumps says
Lurking for 6 years and yet calls women girls…… Now that’s some stupid right there.
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
I think they see it as a powerful statement (losing popularity) against PZ instead of a “tell” for the source, and hence the dismissal of what was said.
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
Shorter abear: I hate bitches! PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!!
chigau (無味ない) says
cactusren
Pink!!!
I was picturing something a little more … fossilly.
athyco says
Rob:
In the flurry, I missed this! It made me immediately think of the fake French accented Meg Ryan saying, “My ass is twitching. You people make my ass twitch.” Ha!
cactusren says
chigau
Well, I guess if you want a booth babe who will just stand there and not interact with anyone (and who doesn’t have clothes, or even skin or muscles) you could always bring a cast of Lucy.
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
abear,
Another fuckwit who proves it with their first comment. There is no objection from those who oppose MRAs like you and jazzmac251 to nudity, or to sex: the objection is to sexism and misogyny, and in the particular context, to conference environments that make many people, particularly but not only women, uncomfortable.
And a liar, too. Because, of course, that didn’t happen; simply, thunderfart dishonestly edited the video to misrepresent harmless banter between PZ and a volunteer, in which the latter was an active and quite evidently willing participant.
cactusren says
QFT. Furthermore, these are generally the same people who would say, “oh, THAT’S not sexual harrassment. You just need to be less sensitive.” But as soon as anyone says something mean about them, that person is a bully and everything is so unfair!
nightshadequeen says
abear:
Care to make an cohesive and evidenced argument here?
chigau (無味ない) says
cactusren
Lucy in a bikini.
Just what I had in mind.
SallyStrange: Elite Femi-Fascist Genius says
The lie here is that opposition to sexism is opposition to sex and sexiness.
The lie here is that PZ sexually harassed a woman a Skepticon 3. There is also the lie that opposition to sexual harassment is opposition to talking or joking about sex.
Protip: Lying is inconsistent with a “fair debate.”
Janine: Hallucinating Liar says
Abear is a chronic hit and run troll. The troll will just make one inflammatory comment , usually not at all truthful and not bother to back anything up.
Do not expect abear to say an other word in this thread. Just expect an other point post in an other thread.
Audley Z. Darkheart (liar, scoundrel, broski) says
Shouldn’t you be down with PZ’s “sexual harassment”*, abear?
I mean, he was just exercising his right to FREE SPEECH.
*I know what the situation was and what is wasn’t, but there’s just no reasoning with some people.
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
Ahh, so we can add pants-pissing coward to his list of lovely attributes.
Janine: Hallucinating Liar says
That would be “pointless”, not “point”.
Tony the Queer Shoop (proud supporter of Radical Feminism) says
jazzmac:
I know you are, but what am I?
(what can I say…the quality of that post was grade school, hence my response)
noastronomer says
Holy crap on the CES photo. As a software developer I’ve been to a few of these types of events, and I admit that I’ve spent an in-appropriate amount of time talking to females with low-cut tops and/or high-cut skirts. I have never seen anything like that photo though. That’s even insulting to me.
(and just so I’m clear I whole-heartedly applaud the removal of all ‘booth-babes’, not just the ones I can’t talk too)
Mike.
calladus says
As an electrical engineer, I’ve seen my share of “booth babes”.
You know what REALLY attracts my attention to a booth? It contains a product that I’m interested in knowing more about.
Secondary: Booth treasure. I must have 3 Rubik’s Cubes and another 3-4 mini-Etch-A-Sketches. Plus a huge poster of Robby the Robot from “Forbidden Planet”.
I prefer getting free In-Circuit-Debuggers though.
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
Wow, that photo. “Fembots”. Way to go on emphasising the whole women = objects front.
Yikes.
Ibis3, Blighter and Trampler since 1971 says
To me, that display looks like a piece of art (I guess, given the live people involved, I’d classify it as performance art). However, given the general atmosphere of a conference like that, and the prevalence of the traditional (and very sexist) booth model phenomenon, not the right context for it (at least not if you don’t want your company to come off as objectifying women in a loutishly sexist way). And “fembot”? Yeah, definitely over the line.
abear says
Illuminata; Thanks for making my point. You just proved that all you can do is misrepresent people and call them names. You and your toxic pals do more to hurt the feminist cause than all the real misogynists in the worst recesses of the internet.
Are you for real or are you undercover recruiters for the MRA movement?
I am a long time supporter of gender equality and fair treatment for women, you are just a whiny keyboard jihadist that likes to make pissy comments to make yourself feel like you fit in with the other purist “true” believers.
rowanvt says
Thanks to abear at 116 I got a BINGO! What prize does we gets, preciousssss?
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
Citation needed, along with an attitude adjustment. The only reason for you ‘tude is trolling, lying and bullshitting.
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
I’m sure it makes you feel better to think so, dear. You really should come to the realization that your fantasies aren’t reality.
Well, no. All we have to go on are your posts here, and going by that, the above statement is a lie.
“Jihadist”, eh? Goodness me, and you want to whine about words. You’re quite the assclam. You could try the one thing which might work – stop whining and make an actual, valid argument. Go ahead, we’ll wait.
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
Also, abear, try answering Sally Strange @ 106. She addressed your post, line by line. Try for an actual, evidence-based response.
chigau (無味ない) says
and I am the Queen of Sheba.
[Nerd, don’t you dare ask for a citation. I have
spokentyped!]Gnumann+, Radfem shotgunner of inhuman concepts says
So… Instead of answering any of the questions towards the factual matter of your last post, you just go on to misrepresent and (try to (you’re not very good at it)) insult people.
Yes, that will certainly sway some people, like known idiots who agree with you already.
Go back to whatever pit you came from please.
SallyStrange: Elite Femi-Fascist Genius says
Lies, lies, and more lies, abear. You already lied several times, as I showed. So why should we believe you when you say you support women’s equality?
TerranRich, Yet Another Atheist says
It’s hilarious that when trolls like abear stroll in and shit all over the chessboard, and some people respond with well thought-out arguments, and some respond with (deserved) insults, said trolls only respond to the insults, and conveniently ignore the arguments presented against them.
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
TerranRich:
Naturally, they don’t have an actual argument. Just whines about all the uppity feminazis and manginas.
chigau (無味ない) says
I, for one, am deeply appreciative of the Deep Rifts that are opening between us and those who have Always Supported Gender Equality And Fair Treatment For Women.
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
Abear, diddums, you have no point. We all know that. You’re also a hypocrite. While you whine about people insulting you, all you’re doing is insulting others. So, exactly why you expect us to care what a whiny, lying, hypocritical pants-pissing bigot has to say, is a bit of a headscratcher.
Ah, wait – is there such a thing as a megaolomanical pants-pissing coward?
Esteleth, Ultra-PC Feminist Harpy Out To Destroy Secularism says
So, there are Deep Rifts™forming between those who think that I am human and those who don’t.
*attempting to summon a fuck to give*
*Error: cannot find a fuck to give. Does not give a fuck.*
Gnumann+, Radfem shotgunner of inhuman concepts says
I’m still not sure what we should use them for though. Acid storage, alligator pond or lava-lakes?
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
Chigau:
Aye, me too. Especially when their notion of incisive commentary is this sort of crap:
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle says
co-signed. Mr. Ron Lindsay asked everyone what can be done to heal the divide (paraphrasing here because i can’t remember his exact wording and I’m too lazy to look it up), I say, why should we want to?
if you’re interested in atheism being more than “i’m so cool, I don’t believe in jesus!”, and you understand that diversity is inifinitely stronger than homogeny, then what good are the “bitches: fuck ’em” crowd?
Ibis3, Blighter and Trampler since 1971 says
Ah, now I see erikthebassist made the same (somewhat dissenting) observation as I. And yet, no one’s called me a fuckwit.* Fancy that.
*The day’s still young. Please, people, if I say something fuckwitted, call me a fuckwit so I can figure out what’s wrong with what I’m saying. Thanks.
athyco says
Ibis, erikthebassist and I thrashed that one out, without no cussin’ atall. He was even nice enough to let slide that I misspelled his name. :)
screechymonkey says
TerranRich@124: “It’s hilarious that when trolls like abear stroll in and shit all over the chessboard”
Yes. I’ve always been told that abear shits in the woods.
Sorry. I’ll show myself out.
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
Ibis, well, that would be because neither of you are fuckwits. I could see a performance art piece utilising body painted people, however, context is the monarch here. If you look beyond the women, there are men, sitting, standing and kneeling, openly ogling and taking photos. This wasn’t a performance piece in a gallery or show setting, expressing, say, objectification.
Rob Grigjanis says
athyco @100: Sorry, OT, but the Meg Ryan quote reminded me of another exchange involving Kevin Kline:
Otto West: Apes don’t read philosophy.
Wanda: Yes they do, Otto. They just don’t understand it. Now let me correct you on a couple of things, OK? Aristotle was not Belgian. The central message of Buddhism is not “Every man for himself.” And the London Underground is not a political movement. Those are all mistakes, Otto. I looked them up.
TerranRich, Yet Another Atheist says
Dammit, I should’ve gone with that imagery instead! Either way, it’s shit. What he has to say, that is.
A. Noyd says
1) Gosh, I love it when folk show up, display their total lack of understanding on a subject, and then whine about how intolerant we are here of “dissenting opinions.”
2) Paleontological booth babe.
~*~*~*~*~*~
erikthebassist (#47)
I don’t see how the one implies the lack of the other. But ask yourself this: If it’s just meant to be art, why do you never see things like this with naked men at trade shows? And why don’t those same reasons apply to art with naked women?
athyco says
I don’t see how that’s OT at all!
nightshadequeen says
*sigh*
roland says
‘..Should not use sexualized clothing’, what does that even mean? Sounds rather puritan to me. Isn’t the whole point that you can wear whatever you want without being harassed?
athyco says
Nicole Glynn @19:
Parallels and crossover with the skeptic community, too right. And I salute your working in the midst of it since the web/tech industry does already have a “booth babe” history while the skeptic community would be harder pressed to find reasons to institute one and should…provided we can quiet the roars of unevidenced outrage…have less trouble avoiding it.
The article from your #20 provided far more tangible proof than I thought it would. Wow, how in-you-face privileged can you get?
WMDKitty (Always growing and learning) says
I like the T-shirt ads!
chigau (無味ない) says
A. Noyd #138
re: Paleontological booth babe.
I don’t know what you’re selling but I’ll take a dozen.
athyco says
Roland, Roland, Roland. There are 140 comments before yours that discuss that. Can you be bothered to read them?
erikthebassist says
Keep reading A. Noyd, I thought about it, there was discussion, I changed my stance, which I later admitted was really just thrown out there to address the line of thought, I was playing devil’s advocate in a way.
I agree that in this context, it’s sexist objectification.
You wouldn’t see naked men at tradeshows because most men get in a tizzy if they have to look at a schlong when it’s not porn or their own for some reason, like the upheavel over the giant blue pecker in the Watchmen mentioned upthread.
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
Roland, why not try reading the fucking thread? Or even the bleedin’ policy it’s about, as described in the OP. It in no way restricts what conference attendees can wear, but is aimed at preventing commercial exhibitors from creating an environment which would make many attendees uncomfortable.
Did that penetrate the concrete, roland old fruit?
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
Sheesh. Tag-teaming fuckwits.
cactusren says
A. Noyd #138
re: Paleontological booth babe
Wow…that is…ummm….
I’ll just say I’m glad there are no booth babes at paleontology conferences.
JAL: Snark, Sarcasm & Bitterness says
The mainstream porn I’ve seen is all close ups of just the penis and whatever hole it’s being shoved into and the woman preening over the penis. There’s no really seeing the man so it’s easy for the guy watching it to pretend it is his penis in the shot.
Which is why I hate and don’t watch porn anymore. I’ve seen enough and quite frankly don’t get the appeal.
roland says
Why would it be different for a commercial exhibitor? You’re right though, I am not reading all 140 comments.
mythbri says
I don’t understand the reasoning behind people who are against anti-harassment policies – even ones that set a tone for the specific events by not allowing vendors to employ “booth babes” to cover up the fact that they are, at the very least, extremely unimaginative marketers.
The “Against Anti-Harassment Policies” people think this will get rid of fun and sexiness. (Not true. They simply provide recourse and support for people who receive persistent unwanted attention, and make it clear that such behavior is not tolerated at the specific event.)
The same people will tell a woman that it’s hypocritical of her to not want to be subjected to unwanted sexual attention if she’s publicly engaged in consensual activities that have a sexual connotation (for example, the Skepchick calendar).
So yes – the point is to provide an atmosphere free of harassment. Having “booth babes” creates an atmosphere of objectification, which can and does transfer from the expo floor to the rest of the event.
Matt Penfold says
Why do you think ?
And admitting you are willfully ignorant is not going to win you friends here. If you had time to comment, you had time to read the comments. Or is not time so much as you cannot understand them ? If that is the case, is there an adult who can help you with the big words ?
John Morales says
erikthebassist, those women have their genitals covered, so the male equivalent would not be showing “a schlong”.
Matt Penfold says
Roland, one other thing. If you had read the comments you would find your question had already be answered. Which makes you rather stupid for asking again I would say.
athyco says
What do YOU care if it’s different for a commercial exhibitor? The convention chooses the vendor. If the vendor employs scantily clad models, that means that the women aren’t getting to “wear whatever they want.” Also, as employees, they don’t get to do whatever they want in case they drive away a customer. So the odds are pretty damn good that they have to put up with more happy assholes than you’d want to meet in one working shift. Let’s say, like one who monopolizes time by asking questions that are answered in the brochure he was just handed rather than read it for himself.
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
Roland:
Until you do, shut the fuck up.
Idiot.
dontpanic says
FTFY. That’s a mistake, Rob. I looked it up.
chigau (無味ない) says
Even if a person doesn’t want to read all the previous comments, control-f is still available.
dontpanic says
Ooops, sorry Rob. I misread what you were referring to; I missed the reference. Yes, indeed the original quote was Meg Ryan.
Nick Gotts (formerly KG) says
Evidently not. Really, that mixture of stupidity and sexism would make an excellent material for the construction of nuclear bunkers.
Rob Grigjanis says
dontpanic @160: That’s OK. I’m still an ape, and loving it!
athyco says
I lost my mental bet, though, Nick. I was almost sure roland would complain that you said fucking thread and bleedin’ policy then implied that he was a concrete head. And why, therefore, he would ask, should he read what would obviously be full of abuse in the other comments.
The blatant “I ain’t gonna and you can’t make me” was a bit of a surprise.
A. Noyd says
erikthebassist (#146)
I was trying to bring up a slightly different point, which is less to do with objectification and more to do with double standards and the fact that art is not somehow outside sexist culture. I don’t assume that nakedness or sexiness in art are necessarily objectifying*, but it is still hugely problematic for such pieces to only ever use only women’s bodies because men’s bodies would scare consumers away. In art, women’s bodies are considered safe and appealing, and the multitudinous reasons for that are not separate from the reasons why the same thing is true in porn. Capitalizing on the different treatment of male and female bodies, not to subvert or criticize it but to sell crap, is part of what makes the presence of “booth babes” such a problem, even when the models are not excessively sexualized.
…….
*Given that the models were not allowed to interact with viewers, there happens to be a lot of objectification going on in this case.
erikthebassist says
A. Noyd – Ahh I see, good point. Hadn’t thought of it that way.
JM – The question that was posed to me however was “why do you never see things like this with naked men at trade shows?” not “why do you think we don’t see men dressed exactly as these women are?”, so you see, I answered the question I was asked and not the one you made up.
Do you find schlong offensive JM? Why the scare quotes? Are you an anti-semite? Do Yiddish slang terms make you uncomfortable or something? ;-)
I do think A. Noyd’s 164 is sufficiant to answer hir own question and better than the one I offered.
With that folks I am off to celebrate my 40th birthday, which doesn’t actually make me feel like celebrating so much as getting fubar’d. =(
a_ray_in_dilbert_space says
I am starting to think that DUDZ like abear and jizzmac really don’t see the difference between sexy and sexist. They’re like the band in Spinal Tap who see nothing wrong with a woman on a leash sniffing a gloved male hand. I really don’t know whether to despise them or to feel sorry for them.
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
Erik:
Even if you applied the men in the same exact situation, they’d most likely be in tight banana hammock thongs, which a whole lot of hetro men object to, ’cause you can see all the bits outlined, clear as day! *gasp* Schlongs, outside specific contexts, makes most men mighty uncomfortable.
Have a happy birthday, Erik! You youngster, you.
John Morales says
erikthebassist:
So what? I’m noting the women aren’t naked.
They’re not scare quotes, they’re literal quotation marks; the reason is I find your usage quaint and measured.
(Why not dongs or pricks or cocks? ← rhetorical)
chigau (無味ない) says
Happy Bday, erikthebassist.
I’m old enough to be your mother.
Don’t stay out too late and call if you need a ride.
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
Chigau:
Technically, so I am I. Eeek.
abear says
127
Illuminata, Genie in the Beer Bottle
11 January 2013 at 3:37 pm (UTC -6)
Abear, diddums, you have no point. We all know that. You’re also a hypocrite. While you whine about people insulting you, all you’re doing is insulting others. So, exactly why you expect us to care what a whiny, lying, hypocritical pants-pissing bigot has to say, is a bit of a headscratcher.
Ah, wait – is there such a thing as a megaolomanical pants-pissing coward?
Ill; keep throwing the tantrums and the insults. It’s sad that is the best you have.
I don’t wish to lower myself to your level, bye bye
Rob Grigjanis says
chigau @169: “I’m old enough to be your mother.”
He’s young enough to have his ass kicked. Forty-year-olds got no respect, I tells ya, especially when they whine about turning forty.
chigau (無味ない) says
and another one bites the dust
No One says
Looked at the picture of the painted nude women in the link. My mind made an odd jump to the Cheech Marins’ carnival barker type character in the movie “From dusk till dawn”, hawking “it” on the doorsteps of the nightclub. His repeated use of the word pussy is interspersed with cheap sale slogans like a used car salesman. An indictive caricature of “sex sells”.
chigau (無味ない) says
my #173 was for abear
—-
Rob Grigjanis
Sometime around my 50th birthday, I described myself as ‘old’ to a 75-year-old friend.
She laughed and laughed and laughed.
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
What’s sad abear is temper trantrums ala the Slymepit™ is all you have. Your level is below the Slymepit….
abear says
What’s sad abear is temper trantrums ala the Slymepit™ is all you have. Your level is below the Slymepit….
Citation please, illiterate glue huffer.
Wowbagger, Antipodean Dervish says
Well, at least some of the Slymepitters have worked out how to blockquote…
Caine, Fleur du mal + says
Stick the flounce, teddy bear, stick the flounce.
=8)-DX says
I’d have gone for that, but sadly no one wanted me… IT’S DISCRIMINATION!
No. Just realize guy, how sexist your culture is.
chigau (無味ない) says
171 abear
11 January 2013 at 6:55 pm (UTC -6)
177 abear
11 January 2013 at 7:15 pm (UTC -6)
shortest flounce
evaaaaar
Rob Grigjanis says
chigau @175: “She laughed and laughed and laughed.”
Yeah, I have friends like that too. Those 70 pluses got no respect either. Fuck them. Don’t tell ’em I said that.
SallyStrange: Elite Femi-Fascist Genius says
If it were equal parts men and women in speedos and bodypaint, it might be an interesting statement on the relationship between human bodies and technology. But, since it’s just women, it becomes something else. It falls into the traditional male artist/gaze vs. female model/object.
So close, and yet so far…
cicely (No Description Available.) says
The Booth Beef, as it were.
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Lunghana breeding pools.
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Happy birthday, erikthebassist.
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athyco says
Me, too, on the birthday happy thing, erikthebassist. (Another old enough to be your mother.)
So…a “How ’bout we stop this trend” brings out one challenger who gets huffy about the nasty words, another who says he won’t read nuffink what don’t come after his specific questions, and a bear who poops in the pool.
Do you think that this part of the issue, being cut and dried as we can print out those harassment policies and plonk ’em on the table, is going to be dropped? I don’t expect Tf00t to make a retraction, but could it become one of those arguments that the big young earth creationist groups tell their members, “Shhhhh….don’t use that one anymore. Everyone will laugh at you”?
Tony the Queer Shoop (proud supporter of Radical Feminism) says
Yes, I demand to know: Where’s the beef?
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
Every post you made on this thread. Nothing but bad attitude. QED
glodson says
he flu.
glodson says
Oh goddamnit. Complete post fail. No more trying will doped up on Nyquil.
Giliell, professional cynic says
Given their chronic inability to differenciate between sexy and sexualized, between flirting and harassment, agency and objectification it makes you fear for any sexual encounters they ever had…
Nerd of Redhead, Dances OM Trolls says
Yawn, old news, discussed in a thread from Dec. 13, 2012. So we know who it was, and that permission was given, and the Slymepit tells lies and bullshits to itself.
shockna says
Now, the nude calendar one is just a garden variety failure to grasp that nudity doesn’t inherently equal sexuality, but the bolded portion boggles the mind.
For someone who claims that the regulars have no argument, this is possibly the most pitiful grasping at straws I’ve ever seen in an internet debate.
Rob Grigjanis says
Nerd @191: I’d never seen that before. Scandalous! The way Americans pronounce ‘PZ’ I mean. I bet his nickname in school was ‘Easy’.
Stacey C. says
Am I the only one who clicked on the image and thought…’Sigh, at least they have a black woman?’ I hate sexist/racist culture.
Timothy Clark says
This is my first time commenting on any of your post PZ. I’m a huge fan and supporter. I’m glad there are male feminists who address sexism in society especially sexism in the atheist/skeptic community. For a long time I avoided the atheist community cause it kept forcing me to choose between being an atheist and being a feminist. Glad that’s no longer the case. I love your posts. Keep fighting.