Share Your Stories

I came across a facebook post by a woman named Molly Suzanna who, for the first time, is sharing her story of police brutality from when she was 19 years old.

It is important for these stories to be shared, and by as many people as possible. I admire her bravery in doing so, and I hope others follow suit.

Her detailed description of what she felt and how she reacted is a very important lesson in empathy. So many people see videos of policemen brutalizing citizens and say “well why were they struggling?” or “why did they talk back?” or a million other lame excuses. Her story drives home a truth that I hope some of these people will feel, that sometimes people are upset, agitated, angry or frustrated for their own reasons. Sometimes, when you feel your body being attacked and hurt, you react on instinct to make it stop. Most people, in emotionally charged situations that turn violent, are not able to think rationally and coolly and predict precisely what actions to take to appease their brutalizer, no matter how obvious it might seem in hindsight. Deescalation in a skill, and one that is supposed to be taught to the fucking police officers. What kind of a world do we live in where it is upon the average citizen’s shoulders to calm down and deescalate a confrontation with the police? When did it become acceptable for the cops to act like overemotional toddlers with guns and authority?

It is chilling to think how close she came to dying over an unsigned traffic ticket. Then, you realize, that many other people in a similar situation have died for something so silly that instantly got out of hand, and are not around now to tell their story.

For those of you who do not have facebook, screenshots of the full story are below the fold.


Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 1.45.14 PM Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 1.45.25 PM Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 1.46.45 PM Screen Shot 2016-07-14 at 1.46.56 PM



  1. Karen Locke says

    That’s just amazingly horrible… and they get away with it. They get away with it.

    I remember my first traffic stop; I’ve been stopped twice in my (white) life, and both times there was a ticket involved, though I didn’t intentionally break the law either time. But the first time, I remember my heart was absolutely hammering, my stomach was in knots, and it was difficult to even converse with the officer without my throat wanting to close up. To this day I have no idea why I was so afraid (then; with all the stories I see like this one, I’ll be terrified the next time). But the cop was polite, he quickly wrote the ticket, and we both went our ways.

    So, I can see how someone can struggle to keep calm in that sort of situation. For the cops to escalate rather than defuse was unconscionable.

  2. smrnda says

    Obvious escalation – cops don’t decide “hey, I’m making people nervous. I should expect that. I should back down.” They get to be bullies and when ordinary citizens freak out (most cops I see look like they’re using roids these days) the citizen takes the kick to the head. There’s also way too much clear enjoyment of the power and brutality above – including degrading strip searches.

    Odd, the burden is always on black people to avoid being threatening. Cops? Never.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *