Macheted and Beaten to a Pulp for not Fasting: Happy Ramadan!

Just a few days after a 74-year-old woman was beaten to death by angry Muslim youths in Kano state, Nigeria, for alleged blasphemy, another similar incident with almost same fatal outcome happened in neighbouring Kaduna state. Francis Emmanuel, a 41-year-old man was attacked by irate Muslim youths for not observing the Ramadan fasting, even though he was not a Muslim.

Speaking from his hospital bed, Francis Emmanuel, a carpenter, reportedly said

I went to buy wood to do some work. When I came back I bought food to eat. As I was eating about six Hausa boys came and asked me whether I am a Muslim or a christian. I did not answer them. They asked why am I not fasting? I told them that I am not a Muslim.

“Before I knew it, one of them slapped me. As I stood up, the rest came and surrounded me and started attacking me with knives. I don’t know them. Nobody could come to my aid because of the type of dangerous knives they were carrying.
“They used cutlasses scissors and knives on me. I became unconscious, I don’t even know who brought me to the hospital.

Beaten unconscious for daring to eat during Ramadan period and he was not even a Muslim! Let’s be clear, even if he was a Muslim, he has the right to choose whether or not to starve himself to please his Skydaddy. No one should have the right or audacity to demand that another observe a religious rite.

In some parts of Northern Nigeria, we have had cases where people were beaten up for drinking alcohol even when they were not Muslims and therefore not bound by the Sharia Law.  Shops selling alcohol have been vandalised because …well, Sharia law. This descent into a state of lawlessly in the name of religion needs to be checked before it gets to a point of no return.

Is their precious Ramadan not supposed to be the “Holy Month of Peace”? Unleashing violence on people who chose not to fast while you starve to endear yourself to your sky daddy brings a whole new meaning to the saying “A hungry man is an angry man”.

Which is why I despair when we are told to be politically correct and wish our Muslims br407171_2699056189303_1043602147_2867789_1434976931_nothers and sisters a Happy Ramadan. Why on earth would I want to encourage people to starve themselves in the name of a Skydaddy?

Happy Ramadan indeed, I’d rather we rid the world of religion in all its barbaric forms.

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Nigeria: 74-Year-Old Woman Beaten To Death By Muslim Youths For Blasphemy

It pains me that every time I had to write about Nigeria, it is always some gory story. I try as much as possible to steer clear of these negative reports, however, no matter how fast I run, i can’t outrun the truth. It is painful but gory religious news are all that seems to come out of Nigeria.

There are a few important stories that came out of Nigeria these past few weeks that I shied away from writing about, cos well, I just despair when it comes to Nigeria and it really causes me a great deal of depression to engage with religious fanatics, especially religious Nigerian fanatics. Such encounter is like a glimpse into the mind of prehistoric cavemen.

It seems I am not allowed to talk about the tragedy in Orlando without acknowledging the tragedy in my own backyard (even though Nigeria has not been my backyard for a few years now). There is always that one person or persons, keen to point out that I am more sympathetic to issues outside the country than within. But how is that surprising? After all, gory religious happenings are the norm in Nigeria, so what else is new?  In my next few blog posts, I shall endeavour to cover a few of these religion motivated gory stories from Nigeria. First, let’s talk about the case of the woman that was allegedly beheaded for speaking against Prophet Mohammed.

On Thursday June 2, 2016 an angry mob mostly consisting of Muslims youth in Kano state, northern parts of Nigeria where Sharia law is observed, allegedly beheaded a woman in the marketplace for the offence of blasphemy.

The victim was 74-year-old Mrs Bridget Agbahime. She was a Christian woman from Imo state, southern part of Nigeria. The woman was a trader in the popular Kano market, Wambai and was in the company of her husband, Pastor Mike Agbahime, when the tragedy occurred.

Since the news broke and gory pictures of a woman’s beheaded body and head on pike made the papers and widely shared on social media by outraged Nigerians, there has been a dispute as to whether the woman was beheaded or just beaten to death by a mob. The husband, Pastor Mike Agbahime has since clarified that his wife was beaten to death by a mob, she was not beheaded.

Beaten to death by a mob for blasphemy or beheaded by a mob for blasphemy, it is an established fact   that the mob took the 74-year-old woman’s life using religion as justification. Period.

It was reported that the Public Relations Officer of the Kano Police Command, DSP Musa Magaji, confirmed the incident.  The PRO said:

  At about 4 30 pm, there was a disagreement between the murdered woman and some traders bordering on religion.

The woman was said to have blasphemed Prophet Mohammed, which did not go down well with the mob.

The police were said to have rescued the husband from the mob, however, no one was immediately arrested. Which says a lot. A mob. A dead woman. Police rescued the husband from the mob but there was no immediate arrest? Unfortunately, that is the sorry state of affairs especially when it has something to do with religion in sharia parts of Nigeria. Following public outcry, Dauda Ahmed, the man alleged to have mobilised the mob against the woman on the allegation that she blasphemed against prophet Mohammed has since been arrested alongside another suspect identified as Subeiru Abubakar.

After 3 days of the incident, Nigeria President, Mohamed Buhari finally made a statement and what did the Sharia supporting, ex-military dictator has to say about the crude action of his kinsmen and fellow sharia enthusiasts? Well he said:

 Let us learn to respect each other’s faith, so that we can know each other and live together in peace

Yes, the Sharia supporting President’s statement was an indirect cause and effect blame of the victim. Don’t antagonise religion and you won’t be decapitated. Sad but not surprising.

Religion is still considered a sacred thing not to be messed with in many parts of Nigeria, especially 377673_397769360294743_1709076460_nthe Northern part where Sharia law reigns supreme. Blasphemy against their holy prophet is deemed an offence worthy of immediate death. They hold their beloved holy book, the quran, above any human life. And it says right there in their holy book that infidels should be killed.

When we defend religion, when we hold dare a book that actually condone such killings, we are part of the problem. Whether we like it or not, for the human race to move forward, we need to leave the burden of religion behind. Religion will continue to cast a dark shadow over societies that hold these ridiculous but very harmful beliefs to be true and sacred.

As I said in my blog post  Islam Deserves No Respect From Me

Religion makes collective insanity cool. When a religion provides a hiding place for bad people to commit atrocities, that religion deserves no respect. Religion is an instrument of oppression, useful in the hands of the rulers. Religion easily provides an excuse for evil people to carry out deluded activities, however, an excuse for evil is itself evil.

I look forward to a day when the world is rid of all superstitious beliefs.

I look forward to a day when religion is not a viable excuse to commit atrocity.

I look forward to a day when religion is not an excuse at all because religion has become obsolete.

Yes, a world where religion is a distance memory is possible. When we rid the world of religion and its attendant superstitious beliefs, we eradicate one very powerful justification to commit atrocity such as the one that befell this poor woman.

A world without religion is possible, let’s do our part to bring it to fruition.

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Related links :

WHY I SPEAK OUT AGAINST RELIGION

Islam Deserves No Respect From Me

 

Baby, You Are Beautiful – Dance Video

Some of us know we are.

Some of us don’t believe we are.

Some of us let society tell us otherwise.

Beauty comes in different colours, shapes and sizes.

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What makes you beautiful is Not

Because you don’t know you are beautiful,

But because you simply are.

Do you; with or without make-up

Rock you; whatever your body size, shape or ability.

Celebrate your body; even if the society says you shouldn’t.

Flaunt these curves; even if they claim you aren’t beach ready.

Embrace and shower your body with Love.

Cos baby, You are You.

And Baby,

You Are Beautiful.

Background Music by One Direction – What Makes You Beautiful

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This World Is Not My Home: Parody

This world is not my home I’m just a-passin’ through
My treasures are laid up somewhere beyond the blue
The aliens beckon me from Spaghetti’s open door
And I can’t feel at home in this world anymore

Flying Spaghetti Monster, You know I have no friend like you
If Planet Spaghetti is not my home then Ramen what will I do?
The aliens beckon me from Spaghetti’s open door
And I can’t feel at home in this world anymore

I have loving aliens’ families just over in glory land
And I don’t expect to stop until I shake their noodly ass

They are waiting now for me in Ramen’s open door
And I can’t feel at home in this world anymore

Flying Spaghetti Monster, You know I have no friend like you
If Planet Spaghetti is not my home then Ramen what will I do?
The aliens beckon me from Spaghetti’s open door
And I can’t feel at home in this world anymore

Just over in Flying Spaghetti land we’ll live eternally
The aliens on every hand are shouting victory
Their smell of sweetest sauce drift back from Ramen’s shore
And I can’t feel at home in this world anymore

Flying Spaghetti Monster, You know I have no friend like you
If Planet Spaghetti is not my home then Ramen what will I do?
The aliens beckon me from Spaghetti’s open door
And I can’t feel at home in this world anymore.

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Homophobic/Biphobic attack claims another life in Nigeria; Councilman on the run for his life

EDITED (16/03/2016)- Latest reports coming in are pointing to the fact that the pictures accompanying this story, which were taken from comments left on the alleged victim’s Facebook wall and news-reports, are not that of the alleged victim. Investigations are ongoing to authenticate the story. 

Trigger warning- Graphic pictures: Blood and violence.  

For some time now, for the sake of my mental health, I have shied away from reporting any news or write about anything from my home country, Nigeria. There is only so much sadness I can handle and that country has left me heartbroken one time too many. However, when I saw this horrible news of tragic homophobia on my timeline, I knew I had to say something about this. If anything could jolt me out of my silence on Nigeria and its nefarious issues, it is certainly another tragic homophobia, biphobia and transphobia case.

From news filtering in, the victim, Akinnifesi Olumide Olubunmi, was accused of homosexual activities, he was beaten up by youths in the community on 17th February 2016 and later died on 18th February 2016 from the injuries sustained.

This very appalling but important news did not make the rounds until a Facebook user, Ogbeni Ade Omo Ade, (who sounds like he participated in the homophobic/biphobic attack), wrote on the victim’s Facebook wall-

 “End of a gay! This will serve as a lesson to all the people that loves engaging in bisexual, homosexual, lesbianism and gay.

Akinnifesi was a guy that everybody in the community thought was a responsible person not until his secret was revealed when he was caught hands down with honourable Dotun who was a serving supervisory councillor in Ondo west local government in Ondo state he was beating mercilessly by Ondo youths that saw everything bad in a man dating a man he was rushed to the hospital but he later died of internal bleeding due to the mob beating the honourable has commited a lot of atrocities by engaging in bisexual activities he is still on the run although his properties has being destroyed his house and family’s house has being burned down this should serve as a great lesson to all youths!”

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This is horrific.

This is appalling.

This is atrocious.

This is inhuman

The celebration of such lynching is nothing short of barbaric.

This horrible man was happy to celebrate the death of an innocent man all because of his alleged sexual orientation. From his post, he would happily participate in the lynching of the other man who is allegedly on the run, even though his home has already been burnt to the ground and his wife and children’s lives already at stake.  Unfortunately, from comments on the victim’s Facebook wall, this reprehensible human being is not alone in his homophobic thirst for innocent blood of sexual minorities.

Mark John‎ wrote:

I saw this on your time line that you are attacked and later died as a result of the injuries sustained in the on 17th January 2016. I don’t know that you are involving in LGBT activities in the community until you were exposed or captured by the youths when you are about to lure a young man into gay practices some where in Ondo. when next you come to this world again you will not practice this unholy things again.

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Adewale Victor, wrote:

“Akinnifesi Olumide Olubunmi When I heard this news of your attacked in Ondo on Facebook I was so disturbed. I said it to myself, that can this be possible that you involved in gay practices? or it was a set up until I investigate the whole story. You disappointed many people including your family and friends. Though I don’t support attack or jungle justice on gay instead they should be handover to the police for proper prosicution in law court of the law. What police should do is to get the run away politician involved arrested so gay will not be spread in the community and it will serve as a lesson to others.”

 

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Sunday Oluwayomi wrote-

He deserves to die he is a bad example to our generation

 Sunday Shedraq wrote- 

This morning, as i logged into Facebook…I saw many posts of people raining courses, posting hate speech and others to one Mr Ogbeni Ade Omo Ade who said the homosexual deserves death and posted some pictures of a victim by name @Akinnifest Olumide Olubunmi who was caught in the act and was beaten by angry youths/mob and he died the following morning. Hmmm so sad, so bad, sad news!! If you can’t create, why kill? I SAY NO TO THE BRUTAL MURDER OF THIS YOUNG MAN…..But whoever supports the existence or practices of gay and lesbianism here in Africa is dead to me. This Young Man Is Dead and Gone Forever and someone posted yesterday that we should leave them alone, its their life.. I SAY NO!! HELL TO THE NO!! If you know anyone still in the act, don’t keep quiet, this is Africa. It is morally wrong, Religiously unaccepted and to the laws of nature, IT IS EVIL.. Even the constitution is against it. Why keep quiet if you claim you love him or her and you started ranting when he is caught in the act and murdered cold blood?

To The Diseased, R.I.P, to the “deaf” R.I.P and to the supporters R.I.P cos that is the only debt i owe you. #‎MyStand

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This is appalling, disgusting, horrific and totally inhuman, but how many Nigerians would really come out to condemn this atrocity without a BUT? This reminds me of the ALLU 4 Case when Nigerians came out enmasse to condemn the lynching of 4 undergraduate students in Portharcourt who were accused of stealing mobile phones and laptops. I wrote an article then, asking, “Would the percentage of Nigerians condemning Jungle justice decrease if the ALUU 4 victims were gays caught in the act?” 

Many claim they don’t support lynching or jungle justice yet they are always quick to blame the victim.

“Why was he gay?” They ask in self-righteous indignation.

“Didn’t he know being gay is a sin? They judged from their religious hypocritical high horse.

“He should know that men should not be sleeping with men” They conclude from their self-inflicted ignorance.

This is murder. The burning of the house is arson. Concerned Nigerians are already asking Facebook to take down some of the hate speech posted on the Victim’s wall, and I believe that of the repulsive Ogbeni Ade Omo Ade has been removed. This is a commendable step, however, it is not just about asking Facebook to take down the posts, I think the Nigeria government should be called upon to act too.

A murder has been committed. Innocent life brutally taken by a gloating, identifiable mob. A councillor’s home has been burnt down. The council man is on the run for his life because of his alleged bisexuality. His wife and children lives are at risk. What is the government doing about this or is it going to be just business as usual?

This horrific incident allegedly happened in Ondo state, South West , Nigeria. Ondo state is well known for producing many academics and its high regard for education. How on earth did this happen in Ondo state? But then it is Nigeria. Any atrocious thing can and do happen. Homophobia, biphobia and transphobia is rife in the country. Religion justifies their hypocrisy and hatred for anything concerning same sex love, and they have no regard for the rights and lives of sexual and gender minorities.

In this modern age, how is lynching a person acceptable behaviour? How is burning down a person’s home because he allegedly slept with another consenting albeit same sex adult a thing in this era? How does anyone explain celebrating the murder of a person because of sexual orientation? This has no place in a sane society, but then Nigerians are known to celebrate their special brand of insanity, which basically means celebration of atrocities that any sane and decent human being would frown upon.

We should remember that Nigeria criminalises Same Sex relationship and LGBT rights advocacy. This atrocious law stipulates 14 years’ imprisonment for anyone who engages in same sex relationship and 10 years’ jail term for individuals or organisations who support and advocate for lgbt rights.

After intense lobby by religious groups, notably amongst them, Anglican church and catholic diocese, the Same sex act prohibition bill was unanimously passed by the House of Assembly and the Senate. Despite outcry from the international community and LGBT rights activists both home and in diaspora, the then Nigeria president, Goodluck Jonathan, signed the same sex prohibition act into law on January, 2014. This outrageous law was welcomed and celebrated by many Nigerians, including some silly comrades and air-headed human rights activists who obviously think homosexuals, bisexuals and transgender do not deserve basic human rights.

The Nigerian government does not care. Life doesn’t really matter, especially gay, bisexual and trans lives.

Nigerian Gays, Bisexual and Trans Lives matter. Let us rally round to condemn this injustice.

Nigeria lgbt activists both home and abroad should put aside our differences and petty bickering to focus on this momentous task. We need to wholeheartedly do our bit to make Nigerian Gays, Bisexuals and Trans lives matter.

Of course, international solidarity is welcomed. An injury to one is an injury to all. Let us together fight this monster known as homophobia, biphobia and transphobia wherever it rears its ugly head. These murderers should be brought to justice. Make your voice heard. Support LGBT rights. Love shall win.

Related links-

ON NIGERIA’S SAME SEX MARRIAGE PROHIBITION BILL

Homosexuality and the legalisation of Homophobia in Africa

Nigerian and Ugandan Lawmakers: The Passing of the Anti-Homosexuality Bills

Would the percentage of Nigerians condemning Jungle justice decrease if the ALUU 4 victims were gays caught in the act?

The Deafening Silence of Nigerian Left on the Same-Sex Marriage Prohibition Bill and Lgbti Rights

Debunking the myths: Is Homosexuality, Bisexuality or Transsexualism Un-African or Unnatural?

Why I identify as an Atheist : Secular Voices of Color

Below is my video contribution for ‘Secular Voices of Colour‘. As the project coordinator, Sincere Karibo stated

Secular Voices of Color is a unique opportunity to spread awareness of and focus on the stories minority representation of nonbelievers.

My video contribution is transcribed below. Happy Viewing!

My name is Yemisi Ilesanmi, I am a Nigerian, grew up in Nigeria and now resident in UK. I was born into a Christian family. Nigeria is the largest black nation on earth and it is one of the most religious in the world. Growing up I decided if I was going to be a Christian, damn right I was going to be the best Christian ever. My parents attended the spiritual church known more as white garment church. It was always about speaking in tongues, prophesy, exorcism and all that crap that comes with believing in a skydaddy and the existence of evil spirits. [Read more…]

No, Atheism is not a leap of faith or a descent into bigotry!

When a friend tagged me in an article in the Guardian titled, ‘My atheism does not make me superior to believers. 396822_165455010225354_100002825693663_217839_1616784218_nIt’s a leap of faith too”, by Ijeoma Oluo, I knew from the second part of the title not to expect much and as predicted, the article turned out to be arrant nonsense.

For one, it reads like a piece someone just figuring out that there is no Santa Claus, Easter bunny, Tooth Fairy or Bogey Man would write. It is quite surprising that the writer, a self-proclaimed atheist, could not differentiate between faith and knowledge.

For this reason, I wouldn’t take seriously anything the writer has to say about atheism, however, i would endeavour to analyse her article.

She wrote-

I didn’t come to this conclusion because the story of a man waking from the dead made no sense – I wasn’t an overly analytical child. I still enthusiastically believed in Santa Claus and the Easter bunny. But when I searched myself for any sense of belief in a higher power, it just wasn’t there. I wanted it to be there – how comforting to have a God. But it wasn’t there, and it isn’t to this day.

This sounds creepily like a gay person wishing they were not gay. Atheism is not a feeling, it is not a sexual orientation or emotional/ sexual attraction, it is not the spooky feeling that some people insist they get that tells them a ghost is in the room. [Read more…]

Just another baby born with a bible: Which came first, the baby or the bible?

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A woman has allegedly given birth to a bible and a baby girl in Osun state, Nigeria. Just another baby born holding a holy book. Last time, it was a baby allegedly born holding a Quran. There was also that case of a baby born holding prayer imagebeads, this time it is a baby born with a bible, all in Nigeria.

I wonder why they are never born with a cure for cancer, a recipe for the best Jollof Rice or at least a lottery ticket that would change the lives of their prayerful parents! Such bullshit stopped being news to me a long time ago, and this malady wouldn’t have caught my attention if not for the sad fact that it was given national coverage on NTA as prime time news! Yes, it made national news coverage on paper and TV, not as satire or a joke but as real news! 

According to NTA, Adijatu Babalola, a mother of three, gave birth to a baby girl after she had delivered a bible in a mysterious way. [Read more…]

Online Dating: Serving up Choices and Confusion

Dating in this generation has a whole new meaning. It is all about choice or rather the illusion of choice, leading to confusion, pain, and a life wasted on swiping profiles for the next hit. This Facebook note by a Facebook friend, got me thinking about dating. As a single woman, i must say, i agree totally with his take on it. In this age of online dating, it is all about the illusion of choice and the uncertainty that comes with it. dating

Back when i was a teenager growing up in Nigeria, 20 something years ago, dating was not even a thing. You were either in a relationship with someone or you were not. It was straight to the relationship phase. Boy meets girl, boy likes girl, boy asks girl, “Will you be my girlfriend?”, if girl likes boy, she plays coquettish long enough to not appear desperate, then says yes, and bingo, they are in a relationship. No dating as it is known today, no testing the waters, that was done at the ‘eyeing her/him up’ stage. The courtship stage did not normally involve alone time together. Maybe time with friends and families where you both sussed each other out, until one of you makes the move. [Read more…]

Planned Parenthood Clinic Shooting: Religious Assholes, Vile Politicians and Dipshit Media

In between the religions assholes causing havoc and the vile politicians eager to drop bombs on civilians, it is a CU5oEefUYAAkYmHwonder WW3 has not been officially declared!

I was out when I briefly saw the headlines for the Colorado shooting today; apparently, three people, including a police officer, have been confirmed dead and many more injured.

The shooter, now identified as Robert Lewis Dear, is a 57-year-old white man from North Carolina.

According to reports

“Lt. Catherine Buckley of the Colorado Springs Police Department said the gunman, described as wearing a long coat and armed with a rifle, gave up after officers inside the building shouted at him. He previously had been firing at police who entered the facility.

Buckley also said the unidentified man had brought “items” with him inside the building and left some outside, meaning officers had to make sure they were not “any kind of devices.”

“The man apparently began his deadly spree at the Planned Parenthood building, although it was not clear if his motive was related to the organization.

“We don’t have any information on this individual’s mentality, or his ideas or ideology,” Buckley said.

Interesting how they are not eager to jump to conclusions about this shooter’s ideas and ideology. This is white cis [Read more…]

Winter might be upon us but nothing is going to take away my sunshine; let’s dance!

What better way to herald a new month than to dance away the pains, sorrows, regrets, betrayals, dashed hopes and disappointments of the past month. What does not kill us makes us stronger.

As I wrote in my poem: ‘Chin Up and Weather the Storm’

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With pressure, we appreciate more our treasures

Stricken down, rise up and look beyond the snares

This too shall pass for nothing stays the same

When it is all falling apart, just stay strong

Chin up and weather the storm!

Winter might be upon us but nothing is going to take away my sunshine.

As Albert Camus said-

In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger – something better, pushing right back.

Nothing lifts my spirits better than good music and the liberty to dance to my favourite tunes whenever I feel like. Music and dance are the choice flavour of my body and soul!

Here is to all Survivors; keep surviving and live life the best you can. Enjoy my dance video!

 

8 Reasons “I’d Rather Be a Rebel than a Slave” on t-shirts for “Suffragette” is Wrong

When Time Out London invited the leading actresses of the new film, “Suffragette”, to be photographed for its October 2015 issue, they did not envisage the heated debate that ensued. The photoshoot featured the stars of the movie, Meryl Streep, Carey Mulligan, Romola Garai, and Anne-Marie Duff posing in t-shirts bearing Emmeline Pankhurst’s quote, “I’d rather be a rebel than a slave.” The appropriateness of the t-shirts message was called into question. Reactions to this debate have been very enlightening as well as disturbing. The photoshoot provided another opportunity to see white feminism in action and the reaction shows how difficult it is for feminists of colour to be heard in a visibly white world.

Mary Rozzi

Mary Rozzi

Below are 8 reasons why the quote on the t-shirts is inappropriate, insensitive and offensive as a promotional material for a 21st century film that seeks to promote equality.

1- Not everyone has the luxury of choosing between being a slave or a rebel

My ancestors were humans who were carted off from Africa and made slaves in foreign lands. They did not have12108275_10153653732906873_381376419150408220_n the luxury of choosing between being a rebel or being a slave. No one would “rather be a slave”. Many of them were rebels but this did not save them from being slaves. They did not just hand themselves over to their captors. They did not just roll over and decided to live the slave life. They did not choose to be separated from their families and land of births.

Captivity was forced on them. Slavery was forced on them. Many were born into slavery. Being a rebel in the sense of organising protests and speeches under police protection and throwing animal blood at their fancily dressed “Masters” were not options available to them.

However, the fact that millions of my ancestors died as slaves in foreign lands did not mean that many of them were not rebels. There were rebellions on the slave ships. Many died with their rebellion stories that will never be told. [Read more…]

My Birthday Dance and Musings: Already Loving my 40s!

I am grateful for four amazing decades on planet earth. I am eagerly looking forward to new challenges and more20150816_141924 resised ftb jpg amazing experiences in the coming years!

I am especially looking forward to starting a new job as a union organiser with one of the largest trade unions in UK. I missed being a full time trade unionist and I am so looking forward to working with union activists and organising workers again!

I started working for the labour movement in my early twenties and with the responsibility of fighting for workers’ rights came many opportunities to see the world from different angles. The views can be very depressing especially when it comes to class stratification, oppression, exploitation of labour, crass capitalism and its uneven division of wealth built on the backs of the long-suffering majority who toil every day to earn a living wage but never get to enjoy the wealth created by their labour. However, sometimes the view can be very exhilarating, especially when the voiceless find their voices through union organising, and against all odds, conquer to achieve great successes, fuelled by strength in unity and propelled by hope in a better tomorrow, while demanding for a better today. The last few years of my 30s were pretty challenging, mostly due to having to start afresh in a new, unfamiliar environment as a single parent with a teenage son who was about to enrol in college. I did not plan to be an immigrant in UK or anywhere else, but sometimes, even though we have our life already neatly planned, circumstances beyond our control could force us to depart from our schedule.

Leaving behind a comfortable life and job security to start afresh in a strange land was not an easy decision to make. [Read more…]

Five Assumptions We Should Avoid Making

I was working out at my gym when two gym regulars decided to strike up a conversation with me.

Gym regular (Male) – You have lost a lot of weight

Gym regular (Female) -Yeah, I told her so too.

Me – Oh, yeah, thanks, the hard work is showing.

Gym regular (Male) – I am sure your husband will be happy

Me – I don’t have a husband. I am single

Gym Regulars – What, you mean you are single? [Read more…]