Online Gender Workshop: Social Construction Workers Rivet Sex to Gender


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Hopefully, in our last workshop entry, we got an understanding of what social construction is, and what it isn’t. I’m a firm believer, as I said in that post, of people being better educated about social construction theory so that they can understand what is and isn’t being said when someone asserts, “Donkey is a social construct”.

Well, not so often donkey, but you get the drift. If you’re still unclear on social construction, revisit that last workshop. The comment thread should be open through January 2016 if you have any questions.

But now that we have a handle on what social construction is, what the heck is it good for? The answer, unfortunately, is, “Less than too many of its proponents think.” In particular I wish to address one argument that I find commonly made by people who find social construction theory exiting, but who poorly understand it. The argument in plain language might be presented like this:

Since gender is socially constructed and sex is socially constructed and they have (at least some) definitions that frequently overlap, we should dispense with pretense and simply merge the two concepts. Sex, therefore, should be equivalent to gender and vice versa (or, alternatively, sex should be subsumed into gender).

For too many, as I said in the last thread, understanding is poor precisely because too many people have discussed it only or primarily in relation to gender and sex. Many people seem to believe that the social construction of gender is something rather special about gender, possibly even something rare. When someone with this view becomes convinced/aware that sex is socially constructed, that person will occasionally be struck with a wonderful idea: let’s just set sex == gender.

The reasons for advocating this, and the presumed benefits, probably vary quite a bit from person to person, though variations on certain motivations or presumed benefits probably do occur with some regularity. It’s quite difficult to know for sure, not least because i don’t often read this argument in a book-length work with room to make a solid case. It’s far more common to hear this argument articulated in conversation. When I do hear it in conversation, it’s invariably poorly thought out. Nonetheless, certain aspects of the argument recur in a way to make me almost ready to believe in the Enlightment’s Clockwork Universe of which Leibniz was so fond.

Though I put the argument in plain language above, let’s break it down a bit more precisely, in a manner that will probably be familiar if you’ve heard anyone attempt to make a case for making sex subordinate or equivalent to gender:

  1. Gender is a social construct
  2. Sex is a social construct
  3. Boundaries set by social constructs are arbitrary
  4. The concept of gender which we have socially constructed overlaps with the concept of sex which we have socially constructed.
  5. The amount of overlap is arbitrary, given #3.
  6. [Insert benefits of conflation here – one common one is that “there is a lot of confusion between the two concepts, and there need never again be a question about which one to use if they are equivalent” but really there are quite a lot of benefits which might be asserted]
  7. And, hey – They’re both Social Constructs!
  8. THEREFORE why not rivet sex onto gender? We can do it!

This is a crap argument. It relies on poor understanding of social construction and on the common misperception that social construction is something rare. This latter misperception is used to make the fact that both gender and sex are socially constructed concepts appear to imply that there must be an even deeper, closer relationship between the two concepts than can be perceived on the surface. X is socially constructed! is not a deepity when properly understood. However, because social construction is so frequently understood only poorly, X is socially constructed! can function rather like a deepity, and does in the bad argument we’re discussing.*1

Moreover, like creationists do when discussing evolution or cosmology, the proponents of this argument rely on fallacious equivocation centered on the word arbitrary. Arbitrary here, as it does when discussing evolution or cosmology, means undirected, with no set goal. It does not mean random or unconstrained. So although the definitions of sex and gender indeed do overlap (indeed some definitions of sex and gender already set the two equivalent) the distinct definitions that do exist exist as they do for reasons.

While many things about cosmological development are dependent on previous conditions in a manner that makes the idiosyncratic placement of this galaxy or that globular cluster appear random, those developments are not random. They are arbitrary. They need not have turned out that way, but when they did turn out that way it wasn’t because of an extradimensional die roll. Moreover, when discussing arbitrariness, we tend to forget how constraints operate: Certain things about the earth are arbitrary, and indeed seem almost random to us since we can’t know enough about all the possible initial conditions that affected the earth’s present mass. But there was never a chance that the mass of the earth would take the form of a cube. No, once we achieved a planetary mass sufficient to cycle carbon, water, minerals and more in a manner necessary for the eventual evolution of a species intelligent enough to name the planet, that mass could only take the form of an oblate sphere with certain topological variations that are minor compared to the major radius of the earth.

Likewise, the final form of the concept we have packaged within the word sex is, indeed, arbitrary. But there are limits to how far society was likely to stray in constructing the concept of sex.*2 To observe something of the arbitrary nature of conceptual distinctions and something of the constraints that limit flexibility, let’s look at a series of words much longer than two:

  1. Gateway
  2. Doorway
  3. Foyer
  4. Hallway
  5. Pathway
  6. Walkway
  7. Roadway
  8. Freeway
  9. Runway
  10. Air Traffic Corridor

I think it’s clear that we could construct a definition that is reasonably close to a definition of gateway but is large enough that many physical doorways would be candidate referents. Perhaps a definition like:

A passage that can be closed off at need, typically with a post on either side that help support the closable barrier or barriers, but through which one can travel to get from one distinct area to another distinct area.

That’s reasonably close to a definition of gateway, and yet clearly many doorways would meet the criteria. Since all concepts (and as we saw in the comments of the last thread, all definitions are concepts, therefore all definitions) are socially constructed, we could easily construct an argument of the same form as that which advocates sex/gender collapse, but designed to advocate gateway/doorway collapse.

But we can also construct an argument of the same form for doorway and foyer, since these two concepts are closely related and have overlapping definitions. How about

A small area designed only or primarily to be transited upon entrance to or exit from a building.

Again, it’s not a perfect definition of doorway or of foyer, but remember that the original argument for sex/gender collapse wouldn’t be necessary if a single definition already perfectly represented the meaning of both sex and gender. We need only show the “special relationship” of social construction and some overlap in definitions.

Foyer/hallway is even easier:

A small area designed only or primarily to be transited upon entrance to or exit from some portion of a building.

Eventually we see that each category can be collapsed into the category immediately before (if any) and immediately after (if any) and that this process can be continued until we have only one category remaining. The definition for that might be something like:

A physical space intended to be transited on the way from an origin to a destination.

Now, if we accept an argument of the form above that advocates for sex/gender collapse, we’re left inconveniently unable to justify any resistance to removing distinctions between foyer and air traffic corridor.

The argument we’re discussing isn’t fallacious, exactly. It doesn’t attempt to logically entail the conclusion that sex == gender. Rather it is an attempt to persuade that uses vague awareness and vague ideas of social construction to make the conclusion more attractive than it would otherwise be.

As a persuasive argument, it does not typically do what a logical argument would be required to do (and a good persuasive argument would possibly do anyway): set up conditions under which collapsing our concepts of sex and gender would be mandated. If it did, it would have to say something about the value of the benefit exceeding the value of any costs. But the argument typically doesn’t deal with any costs. It evades the concept of cost in part through its equivocation on arbitrary.

It seems intuitive that if the final concepts were random, that their couldn’t possibly be any cost to changing the concepts. But even if the final concepts were random, this isn’t so. The constraints most relevant here are the needs to express communicative intentions and the utility involved in making certain distinctions, given the availability of other words and concepts otherwise available.

Let’s start with the constraint of communicative intentions: People have come to rely on the ability to communicate certain ideas with certain terms. Even if you take away the words, people will still wish to express the ideas…and they will find ways to do exactly that. This is most easily found in writings that use the phrase biological gender.

I cannot tell you how much I hate that phrase.

It is found only in the writing of people who intentionally collapse gender and sex. Eventually they find the need to talk about the part of their collapsed concept that only relates to bodies. Since sex == gender, they’ve eliminated use of that word and are thus forced use the cumbersome two word phrase biological gender where their peers continue to use the extent, shorter, and entirely sufficient sex. The mere existence of the phrase biological gender proves that there is a need to talk about reproductive aspects of bodies with a term that handily encompasses male, female and any other human sex categories. It is these needs that serve as constraints on how far the terms can be conflated and collapsed. If there is a need to distinguish the runway from the freeway, humans will find a way to distinguish them. We will come up with ways to get across our communicative intentions, and if enough people share the intent to communicate something sufficiently similar, and if that intent occurs often enough, we will even invent words standardized to communicate that particular intent. Since there is clearly a need to talk about sex, humans will find a way to do that: even the humans who would like to collapse sex and gender.

The only question, then, is do we have enough good reasons to talk about our sexed bodies to justify refraining from collapsing sex into gender, leaving speakers who have the intent to communicate something like our current concept of sex with the responsibility for inventing their own work-arounds? I think it’s clear that the answer is yes. I think that the phrase biological gender proves the answer is yes. But just in case you had any doubts, go ahead and return to an earlier Online Gender Workshop that asks you to wrestle with communicating important things to people who can’t parse the differnce between “sex” and “gender”, people for whom saying, “I have a cervix,” is equivalent to saying, “I occupy a social role that encourages wearing high heels, and I happily think of myself as a woman.”*3

I resist the conflation*4 of sex and gender because without solidly different concepts it becomes impossible to reliably express the predicament of a man born female or a woman born intersex. But I resent any argument for conflation of sex and gender that seems to assume that mere social construction and certain overlapping definitions implies that maintaining distinct concepts is either untenable or unjustifiable.


Exercise 25:

Articulate any advantage or advantages you can dream up for conflating sex and gender. Any at all – the sky is the limit. If you hit four advantages, go ahead and stop unless you feel absolutely compelled to add just one more.

Articulate any advantage or advantages you can dream up for carefully distinguishing sex and gender as consistently as possible, with gender reserved for discussing psychology and sociology and sex reserved for discussing biology. Any at all – the sky is the limit. If you hit four advantages, go ahead and stop unless you feel absolutely compelled to add just one more.

In performing the two parts above, you may consider social construction favorably or unfavorably, and you should feel free to have different ideas about the costs and benefits from any ideas I have expressed or that you think I’ve expressed.

Finally: currently English-speaking society neither conflates nor consistently distinguishes sex and gender. Articulate your opinion of whether it would be worth conflating sex and gender OR whether it would be worth consistently distinguishing sex from gender. Pick one. An argument against conflation need not be an argument for consistent distinction (i.e. you can, if you like, prefer the status quo). Assume, for these purposes, that you are discussing whether or not the change you prefer or oppose is a change everyone would make (or not make) if you but decide the change should be made. So in terms of whether or not the change would be “worth it”, you don’t have to consider that it might not be worth making the effort yourself since you don’t know how many people would join you (and thus may not understand that you have conflated or distinguished the terms). No, for this exercise, you are the god of language. Revel in your power.


 

Moderation Note: I’m not liking how my moderation rules have played out in the past couple of exercises. An iron clad rule of deleting comments from all who don’t do the exercise first isn’t working out. Sometimes I want to preserve a comment that isn’t making a good faith effort to engage for random reasons. I also note that the exercises can be intimidating and some people who do engage the material in good faith aren’t actually doing the exercise. Finally, I worry that some people who might add useful comments are simply not contributing because they are attempting to honor the instructions and don’t feel they have time to do the exercise justice or are confused about the exercise or otherwise have a barrier to performing the exercise but not to providing at least some useful commentary.

I went with a very simple rule because I didn’t want to ever appear arbitrary. I felt that if I appeared arbitrary, some people might run to PZ and ask him to step between myself and an excluded commenter. Although I still do want to avoid creating work for PZ, I’m no longer convinced I can avoid making decisions that won’t appear to at least some commenters to be arbitrary and/or unfair. So, fuck it. I’m making the arbitrariness explicit.

The rule now is, engage with the actual material of the workshop in good faith. Performing the exercise will be an obvious sign of good faith, but it is not the only possible sign. Note that if your first post does not appear to be engaging the material in good faith, I may not actually delete your comments right away, but you will have far less leeway in future comments than someone who starts out well. There are times and places for wide-ranging discussion. Workshop posts with exercises are crafted with a specific discussion in mind: they are not those places.


*1: But since you’ve read the last thread, you understand the idea of social construction thoroughly and well, right? Right?

*2: I don’t think those limits are calculable, though one could get a rough idea by finding the closest equivalent concept to English sex held by monolingual speakers of as many different languages as possible.

*3: Those exercises are these two: Put Your Definitions Where Your Genitals Are and Be Confused, Be Very Confused

*4: Conflation is here used to mean either/both one of sex or gender being subsumed within the other as well as sex and gender being set equal to each other.


 

Previous Online Gender Workshop exercises can be found in these posts:

Introduction and video exercises

Gender Neutral Object exercise.

Gender binarism, gender naïveté,  and confluence.

Definitions of sex and gender and why we use them

Gender Attributions in Practice

Put Your Definitions Where Your Genitals Are

Be Confused, Be Very Confused

Detour: Social Construction Ahead

 

 

Comments

  1. brucegee1962 says

    I’ll attempt the exercise, defending the gender/sex separation. This is a point that I’ve been meaning to bring up in one of the transgender discussion threads, but it seems particularly appropriate here.

    I can imagine a world of the future where our concepts of gender begin to seem less and less important or real. First we can desegregate the toy aisle, then the workplaces, then maybe even the clothing section and the world of fashion. I can imagine a world where gendered performances are optional, where young people experiment between several gender identities as they grow up, maybe even a world where nobody thinks too much about what biological equipment they or their partners have other than the few years where they’re concerned with giving birth.

    HOWEVER, there is going to be one last bastion of sex-related dimorphism that will be the stubbornest to overcome. No, I’m not talking about the frigging bathrooms — enough about the bathrooms, already! I’m talking about sports — a very important subject to many people in our society. When Johnny realizes she is actually Jenny, and she wants to sing with the altos in chorus rather than the tenors, many of us probably won’t have a problem with that. She wants to use a different bathroom — so what? But if she decides that she wants to join the girls’ basketball team, many of those same people may suddenly have a problem — especially if they or their daughters are on the opposite team.

    If gender=sex, and the importance of both is to be diminished, then why have separate teams at all? But if we eliminate the concept of sex-segregation in sports, then in many sports, the women are suddenly at a competitive disadvantage. If we stop having boys’ and girls’ soccer, basketball, lacrosse, etc., and have unisex teams instead, it will become more difficult for many women to play those sports at the highest levels. Will that actually constitute progress? I’m not sure. Thoughts?

  2. Jake Harban says

    Frankly, a lot of this seems like silly semantic games.

    I have never known anyone to actively defend the idea of conflating the language for “sex” and gender.” In my experience, people are taught to conflate the concepts (so that having a penis necessarily entails a revulsion to wearing dresses) and the conflation of language follows naturally from the conflation of the concepts themselves. Some people, perhaps, will defend conflation of the concepts (and the language, incidentally) but if anybody has ever fully understood that the biology of sex and culture of gender were separate concepts but insisted on conflating the language anyway, I haven’t heard of them.

    Onto the exercise.

    From your use of italics, I think you’re talking about the words “sex” and “gender” rather than the underlying concepts. In which case, I see no basis for conflating them. It’s not like trying to conflate “gateway” with “doorway,” it’s more like trying to conflate “poor person” with “criminal.” They refer to completely different concepts; any connection between them is tenuous at best and largely based on bigotry. Those who subscribe to that bigotry (or have unconsciously absorbed it by living in a society that endorses it) may conflate the concepts, but no one who fully recognizes that the differences will argue that the words should be conflated.

    The argument that they should be kept separate follows naturally; radically different concepts should be referred to by different words, especially when they’re incorrectly conflated and/or context doesn’t always make the distinction obvious when the same word is used.

    As for making me the God of Language, well, how far do my powers extend? The end goal is to abolish the concept of gender entirely (since it has no benefit to society and much harm) and I would like to think that people would be fairly quick to abolish it as soon as they stop thinking it’s biologically hard-wired. To that end, I’d keep the terms separate except that rather than using “sex” for biology and “gender” for culture, I’d use “gender” for biology and “gender role” or “gender stereotype” for culture— its clunkiness reflects its nature as a transitional term that will fall out of use once the underlying concept ceases to be relevant.

    Unfortunately, there’s piles of evidence to suggest that just because we learn that we only ever started believing something for bad reasons doesn’t mean we’ll stop believing it. As such, I think that although separating the concepts of sex and gender in people’s minds is a vital step towards eliminating the latter, it won’t be sufficient. Of course, the argument for keeping the concepts completely separate in language works just as well, so I’d probably use my linguistic divinity to create absolute separation of the concepts at all times. I would, however, conflate the words “he” and “she,” as I feel that separating pronouns based on gender does a lot to reinforce the idea of gender as a culturally relevant and valid concept by making it basically impossible to refer to someone without knowing their gender. (I also suspect that once “he” and “she” are conflated, one will fall out of usage; when “you” and “thou” were conflated, people stopped using the latter.)

    @brucegee1962— it seems odd to say you can imagine a world in which gender is essentially nonexistent and yet people still have “gender identities” and “performances.” That someone can say: “I belong to the male gender,” or act in a manner consistent with the male gender presumes that there is a culturally relevant concept of gender in the first place.

    As for sex and/or gender segregation in sports— I fail to see how it would put women at a disadvantage or hamper/reverse progress. Abolishing the concept of gender so that “woman” refers only to sex, there’s absolutely nothing about being a woman that would put you at a disadvantage in sports compared to men.

  3. AMM says

    Okay, I’ll take a shot at justifying conflating them. (Please don’t assume that I agree with this justification.)

    First:

    I’ll define “sex” as classification into “male” and “female” based on visible anatomy. (One could add additional classifications without changing the basic argument.)

    I’ll define “gender” as a classification of people that affects how they interact with other people, their privileges and duties, their social roles, etc.

    Now:

    The argument in favor of treating the two as the same: society needs reproduction, which requires that people pair off in ways that make it likely that these pairs will produce children; if your pairs consist of one “male” and one “female” (sexes), you’re more likely to produce children. Setting up society so that social roles and expectations (“gender”) make it difficult not to pair off that way promotes that goal. Thus, it only makes sense to have “gender” and “sex” classifications (as I have defined them) coincide.

    Note that the needs and natures of the people involved aren’t considered, or at least are not considered as important as society’s convenience. This has traditionally been considered a virtue, not a drawback.

  4. AMM says

    I have never known anyone to actively defend the idea of conflating the language for “sex” and gender.”

    That’s because conflating them is the norm. Most people don’t even understand the distinction between “sex” and “gender,” including a fair number of people who think they should be distinct. Note that we use the same words for sex classifications as for gender classifications.

    The only people who are even talking about this are the people who are arguing for distinguishing between them, and they’re a minority.

    Actually, one could argue that transphobes are, in fact, arguing that there is no distinction between sex and gender. The claim “a so-called trans woman is really just a man in a dress” is simply arguing that the presence of a penis at birth is (not just should be) the basis for classifying someone as male. This is the heart of every trans-exclusive argument I have ever heard.

  5. says

    1. Conflating sex with gender allows us to: assign, validate, expect certain performance roles based only on sexed bodies.

    2. Distinguishing between them allows us: capture the fact that felt sense of a difference between someone’s gender and their assigned sex.

    3. I would maintain a strong distinction between sex and gender. Sexual differentiation in the body appears to happen at a different time in prenatal development vs sexual differentiation in the brain, and we have strong reason to believe that the mechanism of action relates, in part at least, to the presence of absence of androgens. Thus, there’s no reason why sexual differentiation in the brain (‘gender’) necessarily must line up with the body (sex), and every reason to believe that the two can vary. Maintaining a linguistic distinction allows us to capture the brain/body difference and allows folks who experience it a way of communicating it.

  6. slithey tove (twas brillig (stevem)) says

    might be misinterpreting, but to state my imprssions while not imposing them as facts, let me say:
    Sex is anatomy, gender is personality. Sex is biologic gender is sociologic.
    cen’t say much else. let those words just float around for a while.

  7. Crip Dyke, Right Reverend Feminist FuckToy of Death & Her Handmaiden says

    than you, brucegee1962, Jake Harban, AMM, Christopher Wargo and slithey tove.

  8. chris61 says

    I see no reason for conflating sex and gender. Since I believe psychology is also biological in origin I would reserve sex specifically for anatomy. In that context sex is a useful medical concept.

  9. Crip Dyke, Right Reverend Feminist FuckToy of Death & Her Handmaiden says

    @Jake Harban, #2:

    I have never known anyone to actively defend the idea of conflating the language for “sex” and gender.” In my experience, people are taught to conflate the concepts (so that having a penis necessarily entails a revulsion to wearing dresses) and the conflation of language follows naturally from the conflation of the concepts themselves. Some people, perhaps, will defend conflation of the concepts (and the language, incidentally) but if anybody has ever fully understood that the biology of sex and culture of gender were separate concepts but insisted on conflating the language anyway, I haven’t heard of them.

    Yes, well, few people who actually teach social construction do advocate the (re)conflation of sex and gender. If there’s a formal, published presentation of the argument I don’t know it (or I would have quoted it).

    However, a number of people I have known who teach this stuff defend such conflation, even if they don’t advocate it per se. Moreover, a great many people who aren’t paid to work in a field that teaches social construction do, in fact, advocate such conflation.

    I don’t know if sampling bias has affected this or not, but in my experience it has largely been trans* people who identify as transgender. For various reasons, some trans* folk become attached to certain language, and those who avoid sex will then be more likely to identify as transgender*1. Some of them go on to justify to themselves that it’s okay to avoid the word sex because words, meanings, and definitions are all socially constructed anyway. When I’ve called such people out on their avoidance of the term sex, I’m frequently met with the argument I’ve described (and hopefully undermined) above.

    I am, many times, sympathetic to the reasons they might want to avoid the term sex. However, I don’t accept that social construction is something special about sex as a concept or gender as a concept, and thus being socially constructed isn’t some amazingly rare, coincidental relationship between the two. The fact that both are social constructs is no more a reason to conflate them than the fact that walkway and freeway are both social constructs is a reason to conflate those two categories.

    =================================
    *1: they avoid “transsexual” for obvious reasons, but then avoid “trans*” and “trans” because they only exist to unite transgender and transsexual and this particular subgroup has no use for the term transsexual

  10. brucegee1962 says

    @brucegee1962— it seems odd to say you can imagine a world in which gender is essentially nonexistent and yet people still have “gender identities” and “performances.” That someone can say: “I belong to the male gender,” or act in a manner consistent with the male gender presumes that there is a culturally relevant concept of gender in the first place.

    I didn’t say that I thought gender would disappear entirely — just that it would become “less and less important [and] real.” We’ve gotten a bit farther towards this goal with races — while nobody can honestly say today they’re “color blind,” there is getting to be broader societal acceptance of the idea that supposed racial differences were made up and socially imposed by previous generations, and that cultures of racial identity can be malleable. I can see the same thing happening to gender, a bit farther down the road.

    Also, I didn’t say that I envisioned gender performances as being binary in the future. There may be a wide variety of possible gender roles for people to choose between in the future, none of which might conform to our concept of “male.”

    presumes that there is a culturally relevant concept of gender in the first place.

    I don’t think gender will go away entirely, if that’s what you mean. As long as we’re mammals, we’ll still want to be intimate with one another, and gender performances will probably always be associated with that somehow — maybe just not in a way that we would recognize today, or which would even correspond with one’s sex.

    I saw that with my 14-year old daughter the other day. We were talking about the choral concert I mentioned in @1. The guys were dressed in snappy black outfits and ties and the girls in dresses, with one individual in the midst of the sopranos section with male features and the male outfit. I asked my daughter about him, and she said “Oh, he’s trans. He’s really popular — everyone likes him.” I said something about how that was cool, and she added under her breath “All of us in my group are bi now.”

    The way I took it (and I could easily be wrong — who can really understand what their kid’s school is like?) was that, at least in this subset of this school, not only was it seriously uncool to display any lack of acceptance towards LGBT kids, but there was something kind of square about presenting yourself as cis/het. Make of that what you will, but I think we’re going to see more of that as this generation grows.

    As for sex and/or gender segregation in sports— I fail to see how it would put women at a disadvantage or hamper/reverse progress. Abolishing the concept of gender so that “woman” refers only to sex, there’s absolutely nothing about being a woman that would put you at a disadvantage in sports compared to men.

    I’m no sports expert myself, but I would assume it would depend on the importance of upper body strength and height in the individual sport. I recall hearing that in some areas like track, the mens’ records and womens’ records have been getting closer and closer for some time, but still aren’t equivalent.

    I suppose I could be wrong in this. I remember hearing that Venus Williams beats most other women because her opponents refused to do the kind of strength training you need to be a really great tennis player, because they felt muscles would make them look too unfeminine. So perhaps the tradition of male upper body strength being higher is just another cultural artifact.