Surgery done. Went well. Home now. On drugs. Blog later.
Monthly Archive: October 2012
Oct 23 2012
Surgery tomorrow
Just a quick update: My hysterectomy is tomorrow, Wednesday Oct. 24. The plan is for me to come home that same day, but there’s a chance I’ll need to stay in the hospital overnight. I’ll do my best to post at least a short post letting y’all know that I’m through the surgery. But I …
Oct 19 2012
Street Art: “Picturesoteric” by Sirron Norris
So I was heading home today from a couple of pre-surgery errands. (Yes, I know, I have friends who will run errands for me right now… but I wanted the exercise and the outside time, especially since I have a stretch of house-bound boredom and cabin-fever ahead of me.) I was feeling tired and worried, …
Oct 19 2012
Wow, wow, wow — and thanks
Wow, wow, wow. The fundraiser has been a thumping success. It has exceeded all my expectations. I will be able to comfortably cover my mortgage and other expenses for a few months, while I recover my health and get my writing and speaking career revved up again afterwards. No further donations or spreading of the …
Oct 18 2012
Bad news, good news, and asking for help
UPDATE: No further donations or spreading of the word are necessary. This fundraiser has been a success: I’ve raised enough to comfortably cover my mortgage and other expenses for a few months, while I recover my health and get my writing and speaking career revved up again afterwards. Effusive, gushing, heartfelt thanks can be read …
Oct 13 2012
Grief Diary, 10/12/12
10/12/12 The thing I’ve been having a hard time with in the last couple of days: The fact that grief feels horrible — and there’s pretty much nothing I can do about it. I’m very used to tackling my problems. I’m used to trying to fix the bad things in my life, or at least …
Oct 12 2012
Richard Hermann Muelder, 1933-2012
My father died on October 1, 2012, at the age of 79. My dad, like me, was an atheist. And when you’re an atheist and a non-believer, and the people you love die, you don’t get to tell yourself that they aren’t really dead. You don’t get to tell yourself that you’re going to see …
Oct 12 2012
Godless Perverts Story Hour – San Francisco, Nov. 17!
I’m co-hosting an event this November at the Center for Sex and Culture, with David Fitzgerald and Chris Hall — the Godless Perverts Story Hour! The Godless Perverts Story Hour is an evening about how to have good sex without having any gods, goddesses, spirits, or their earthly representatives hanging over your shoulder and telling …
Oct 11 2012
National Coming Out Day
Today is National Coming Out Day. So: I’m bisexual. I’m an atheist. I’m kinky. I suffer from situational depression. I think y’all already knew all that. But just in case.
Oct 11 2012
Grief Diary, 10/10/12
10/10/12 A better day today. Took yesterday off from, you know, pretty much everything. I was having some female trouble, so I made that my excuse to do what I’ve been desperately wanting to do and have been afraid to for fear that it would push me deeper into my depression: namely, just check the …






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