I have a new piece up on the Blowfish Blog. It’s about figuring out your sexual likes and dislikes… and why it’s important for this to be an ongoing process, a continuing education program rather than a one-time training.
It’s called Tickling A Moving Target: When Your âYes/No/Maybeâ List Changes, and here’s the teaser:
So the other day, I was reminded — vividly, and in the best possible way — of a very important but easy- to- forget truth about sex.
The truth: Sexual desires change. Things that last year hit all your beautiful buttons might leave you lukewarm today. And things that last year made you run screaming from the room might make you go âHmmmâ tonight. Mapping your desires can be like mapping Europe in the â80s and â90s — itâs a geography that could shift at any time.
Hereâs the story.
To find out the story, read the rest of the piece. Enjoy!