Please note: This post, and the post it links to, contains very explicit details, not so much about my personal sex life per se, but about my fantasies and my tastes in porn. Family members and others who don’t want to read that, please don’t.
I have a new piece up on the Blowfish Blog — with a nosy little poll at the end of it, aimed at readers of all stripes but especially at other sex writers and educators. It’s called On Surfing the Web for Spanking Porn, and it begins very much like this:
Honestly, I’m a little embarrassed by it.
I know that seems weird. I’ve been writing in shameless detail about my sex life, my sexual fantasies, and my tastes in porn for years. Why should I be embarrassed about surfing the web for spanking porn?
I think I’m embarrassed because I’m so single-minded about it. As a porn critic, I pride myself on having eclectic tastes, on being able to be turned on by almost any sexual scenario if it’s executed with passion and skill. All of which is true.
But when it comes to my free time, my “me” time, my non-professional “looking at porn just to whack off” time, I’m very single-minded indeed. I want to look at photos of women being spanked.
Within some pretty specific parameters.
To find out more about those parameters — and how I feel about the whole thing — read the rest of the piece. Enjoy!