I have a new piece up on the Blowfish Blog, a meditation on the pro-porn/ anti-porn debates suggesting that both sides might be being a tad simplistic. It’s called Which Side Are You On? Pro-Porn and Anti-Porn Arguments, and here’s the teaser:
Youâd think this would be a no-brainer. Iâve performed in porn. Iâve produced porn. Iâve sold porn. Iâve written porn. Iâve reviewed porn. And Iâve read and looked at porn, many many times, purely for my own libidinous pleasure. And whenever I read someone reflexively attacking porn, railing about how horrible it is and how itâs degrading and ruinous to all that is good and wonderful about sex, I get very cranky and argumentative.
But hereâs the kicker. When I read people reflexively defending porn, raving about how wonderful and uplifting it is and how all criticisms of it are absurd and unfair, I get cranky and argumentative as well.
You might conclude from this behavior that I am a cranky, argumentative person.
You might be right.
But thereâs more to it than that.
To find out what more there is to it than that, read the rest of the piece. Enjoy!
Loved the essay, and it expressed my thoughts exactly.