Tag Archive: Mistakes Were Made

Jun 23 2013

The shamed person has nowhere to go

More from Mistakes Were Made. Chapter 6 is on self-justification in marriage, but it applies to other kinds of relationships too. One particularly striking observation is on page 171. Social psychologist June Tangney has found that being criticized for who you are rather than for what you did evokes a deep sense of shame and helplessness: …

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