Happy Easter Monday Floggings

Jana from Learn.Make.Think shares a story from her childhood in Slovakia. This is a short excerpt:

The days leading to the Easter weekend, us – the girls – spent scrubbing the house top to bottom; washing windows, dusting carpets, waxing floors, starching curtains and decorating both indoor and out before we got to “relax” in the kitchen. We had to dye  the eggs, bake Easter bread pudding and wrap all the gingerbread Easter bunnies my mom would make each year. Arranging them in baskets alongside all the chocolate eggs in colourful wrappers without being allowed to munch on any of them has always constituted child abuse in my eyes.

That, and what would traditionally happen on Easter Monday:

You see, the boys had only one task to complete on Easter weekend: take a walk to the woods, find a willow tree, select 8 longest, thinnest and the most flexible branches and braid them into a whip.

So that they could whip us.

Right before (or after, or both) they throw us into an ice-cold stream.  Or a pond. Or a bathtub. All because they have our well-being at heart. After all, according to a tradition dating back to pagan days, the cold water strengthens our health while being whipped with willow braids full of fresh sap is supposed to make us more fertile.

Jana tells her story with a sad humor and intersperses the hard words with lovely pictures of her colorful painted Easter eggs. It’s a heck of a read.

Read the whole story at Jana’s blog.

Happy Easter Monday Floggings
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New CUP Contest TOMORROW

I will be posting the 12th Close Up Photo tomorrow at NOON CST. And this time I’ll have it set to auto-publish so it won’t be late. :p

Stop by the CUP Winners page for detailed information about rules, scoring, players and past contests. Here’s where we stand for current rankings:

Remember – the first one to 1000 points wins. On a related note, I’ve decided to step up the frequency of CUPs so that I don’t drag this contest into perpetuity. I have a goal of posting a new CUP at least once per week. Yeah, we’ll see how that goes :p

New CUP Contest TOMORROW

Married People Conversations

We were about to leave the house to go on a bike ride, but before we did I jumped on the computer to double check our route, and the Hubby laid down on the ground to stretch. I ended up fiddling around on the internet for a bit longer than necessary, and the Hubby’s stretching turned into dozing off. When I was finally done, I turned around in my chair and saw this:

Me: Wow, you both got comfortable.

Hubby: She likes me!

Me: [snorts] She likes warm, soft places to sit.

Hubby: Oh yeah? Then why does she like laying here on my rock hard abs?

Me: Oh, honey.

Married People Conversations

30DaysofBiking: Day 23

Where: South, West and Downtown Minneapolis (8.5 miles)
Why: Recreation
When: Saturday April 23rd
Weather: Chilly, overcast 45F (7.2C)
Who: Me and the Hubby

Notes: Today we jumped on the Greenway, got off at Dean Pkwy, then made our way over to the Kenilworth Commuter Trail, which we took into downtown Minneapolis. We stopped on the Kenilworth Trail to take pictures at the Minneapolis Linden Yards where the city recycles concrete and stores construction and construction waste materials. We rode by the Twin Stadium and stopped at the Lyndale Farmer’s Market, which officially opens next weekend, but there were a few vendors out today. Unfortunately, one of them was not the cinnamon roll people, much to the Hubby’s disappointment.

30DaysofBiking: Day 23

Photos of PPFA Supporters

Yesterday I posted the story of my experience at the Good Friday  counter-protest that was held during the pro-life prayer vigil at Highland Park Planned Parenthood. Here are some of my favorite photos from yesterday, and here’s a big shout-out to everyone who took time on a Friday morning to show their support for men and women’s access to reproductive and sexual health.

Photos of PPFA Supporters

Planned Parenthood on Good Friday

Good Friday protesting is a tradition at the Highland Park Planned Parenthood in St. Paul, MN. Every year on this day a prayer vigil is held and hundreds of anti-choice supporters gather to pray to God for an end to abortion. In response, hundreds of pro-choice supporters gather to walk and cheer their support for the services that Planned Parenthood provides and a woman’s right to reproductive choice.

This is the first year that I’ve participated in the solidarity event, and the first time I have visited the Highland Park Planned Parenthood. I arrived at 7:30am and found a parking spot not too far from the clinic. Everything was very well-organized with cones, mobile fencing and plenty of uniformed police. An area for protesters was set up on one side of the clinic’s driveway, PPFA (Planned Parenthood Federation of America) supporters were on the other. There was a division between the two groups of about the length of the clinic itself, and the only people who were allowed to stop in this neutral zone were police and on-duty Highland Park clinic escorts.

The police and escorts were very good about keeping people from both groups off of the sidewalks and property unless they were walking through (that’s my way of saying I was wrist-slapped twice during the day for standing on the sidewalk while I took photos).  

Both groups were setting up when I arrived. I signed in at the pro-choice supporter’s booth, grabbed a sign (“Women’s Health Matters”) and joined a small group which had started walking clockwise around our “pen”.

The PPFA supporter sign-in area was in the clinic parking lot, but escorts did a great job of keeping the driveway entry clear for patients and staff.

At around 7:30am, the walk begins!

One of the first things I noticed as I was getting in line was a nearby run-down white building with a sign out front that said “Highland LifeCare Center”. I walked down to take a look.

Ugh. Yup – Crisis Pregnancy Center. CPCs usually position themselves close to clinics that provide abortions. This isn’t a medical clinic, but a “counseling” center. CPCs exist to try to keep women from getting abortions, and they have been known to use some pretty sneaky and underhanded tactics to achieve that goal. Bummer that this one is here.

8:00am and the crowds grow larger:

As time went on, more and more people showed up for both sides. There was no drama that I saw; both sides kept to themselves. The protesters chanted bible verses, sang hymns and church leaders showed up to give sermons and lead prayers. There were a few anti-choice signs, but nothing graphic, no bloody fetus replicas or yelling or screaming. I think that for most of them this was a pretty solemn occasion.

Okay, I swear that the appearance of the DQ Chicken Strip sign is purely coincidental and was not an attempt at humor. But it does kinda look like one of the marchers could be carrying it, doesn’t it? Pro-lifers for Chicken Strips!

There was little to do except chat, walk and cheer – which was a blast! I had a chance to meet some interesting people, including a lovely, charming woman who has been involved in the pro-choice movement since 1991. She told me about the illegal abortion she obtained back in the day, and how years she later she tracked down the doctor who had provided her abortion in order to thank him. I spoke with a gentleman who is interning with the MN National Organization for Women, and who I had met at the much chillier Walk4Choice back in February. And then I ran into some friends who I hadn’t even known were pro-choice supporters!


Walking at PPFA solidarity events is a great way to make new friends…


…and a good place to have surprise meet ups with current friends!

We were walking on Ford Parkway and there was a lot of passing traffic, a lot of supportive horn honking, and very little heckling. I did see one woman make a cross with her fingers (what are we – vampires? And get your hands back on the steering wheel, lady!), and I heard another walker exclaim, “I think that woman just hissed at us!” and start giggling. The supporters who drove by were very vocal and wildly waved out of their car windows or gave thumbs up. For those who didn’t agree with our message, well…Minnesota Nice kept them most of them politely disdainful and quiet.

Around 10am some of the PPFA supporters held a non-denominational service and sing-along.

And that was about it for me. There was a little drizzle, and the weather was cool, but not not horribly uncomfortable. I ended up leaving at around 11:30am when the crowds swelled so much that we could hardly move around our allotted space. I ran off to have lunch with the Hubby, and on the way back to his office we drove by and added some of our own honking and waving to the mix.

All in all, it was a really good experience and I’m glad I participated.

Planned Parenthood on Good Friday

30DaysofBiking: Day 21

Where: Lyndale and Carag neighborhoods (~3.5 miles)
Why: Recreation
When: Thursday April 21th
Weather: Dark, drizzling, cold 40F (4.4C)
Who: Me and the Hubby

Notes: It was a cold and rainy night, so we thought we’d work with the theme and try to take a picture down by Lakewood Cemetery. SThe only camera I brought was my phone and the flash on the HTC Incredible is rather less than incredible. So, I ended up posing the Hubby under one of the brighter lamps in the Lyndale Farmstead park and taking what I could get, photo-wise.

30DaysofBiking: Day 21

30DaysofBiking: Day 20

Where: Lynlake to Powderhorn Park (~4 miles)
Why: Recreation
When: Wednesday April 20th
Weather: Alternating sunny and overcast, 38F (3.3C)
Who: Me

Notes: Powderhorn was teeming with birds. I saw wood ducks, mallards, gulls, Canadian geese and even a cormorant. I’ve now got over 300 pictures to go through to see if I managed to capture any gems!

30DaysofBiking: Day 20