I got into an exchange with someone who insisted that prayer offers people something “inside”–even if it’s not true that it actually changes anything in the real world. Ironically, I agree, which is why I think it’s horrible. Here’s an analogy inspired by the dialog:
Intercessory Prayer, a hypothetical: I put an ad in the local paper saying I am retired, but have experience and contacts in the business world and can help people find work. They need only drive out to my house–an hour outside the city–and bring me their resume and talk to me about their work history for 30 minutes. I don’t charge anyone a dime.
You are a reporter and you’d like to do a story on me and the inspirational work I’m doing. I meet with you and you ask me how it works. How do I help these people find work? I say, “Oh, after the applicants leave, I throw their resumes and vitaes in the trash. I don’t actually do anything to help them find work. I just like knowing that I provide them with a sense of hope and inspiration that things might improve for them–since they believe I can help them. In fact, I was a bus driver all my life and have no real business experience at all.
Am I a kind, caring helpful person offering a benefit to people? Or an asshole who wastes their time? Remember–it only takes 2.5 hours of their time, and they’re still looking for work on their own. But am I helpful or a dick?
In the context of the church–organized religion–they do charge for this “service.” And in addition, there is a story in the news just about daily of parents who didn’t seek medical help for their children because their churches teach that god will heal if it’s His will–and a doctor is a demonstration of a lack of faith in god.
So, let’s redo the scenario above to say I tell people to give me 10% of their net worth if they want me to take their case, and that in some cases I tell them that I won’t help them unless they cease all other independent job hunting.
Again–helping or hurting? Kind or asshole?
Is this really hard?