Cosmopolitan magazine has been at the forefront of the finest of advice given to women for more than a decade. Okay. Cosmo’s advice boils down to “Touch him on the Penis”. I couldn’t even be sarcastic about it. But it’s given some “terrible” fucking advice. Advice on what to do if you cheat on your …
Category Archive: Men
Apr 29 2013
Age of Kali – A Thug in Velvet – The Indian Man
Around a decade ago there was a watershed in Indian culture. We saw a concept come about in India and abroad. It was called the New Indian Male. The very idea of the New Indian Male was a gentleman. He wore clothes that fit and wasn’t picked out by his mother. He understood fashion. He …
Mar 24 2013
A Voice for Me: Not You Too India!
In the light of the Delhi rapes you may have noticed a couple of the MRA websites have rushed to defend the “so called Rights” of men in India. I does need to be repeated. Anyone who has read my blog is aware of the various “major” rapes that grip the news headlines out here. …
Mar 03 2013
Compensating for Something
I was working on a response to a mailed in article from AVfM when I saw this catch my eye. And here is the thing. People LOVE to think feminism is about objectifying men. It’s not. AVfM has fallen down (yet again) into the trap of thinking that women somehow demand massive wangs because of …
Mar 02 2013
Something for the Men
I think before I start… Special thanks are in order. For all the people who laughed at my alleged bankruptcy due to not getting to speak at any conferences (If you knew how they worked then speaking at conferences would INCREASE the chance of bankruptcy!), who sent me messages calling me slacktivist (I don’t think …
Jan 24 2013
Phone Blogging – Schrodinger’s Rapist
This is a rewrite – Blogging from the phone was an experiment and a total failure. It’s impossible to actually re-read what you wrote and spelling mistakes, grammatical errors and the like abound (even more than usual) I dislike schrodinger’s rapist but I understand why the concept exists. You see people judge me by what …
Oct 31 2012
Of iPhones and The Game
I am currently stuck at home due to flooding in Chennai. Typhoon Nilam is set to make landfall today and already the winds have picked up and we have been subjected to constant rain. It’s no hurricane but it is pretty nasty. So while poking around this new fangled reddits, I came across this absolute …
Aug 17 2012
No Means No
When you have children teach them this simple dogma “No means No. Yes means Yes. Maybe means No, if Maybe means Yes then be pleasantly surprised.” Consent is something vital to the normal functioning of a human being. We regularly communicate with each other and consent is the basic agreement of two (or more) individuals …
Mar 24 2011
The Silent Majority: A few good men
Walk A Mile in Her Shoes The university of Montana ran an event called Walk a Mile in Her Shoes. An admirable event if only for the fact that men paid $5 to walk a mile in heels, which I understand is a killer process which I can tell you from research done aged 8 …
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